How are you all able to tell the difference between mom and dad? I've been looking for differences but can't seem to find any other than maybe size. But the size is irrelevant if they aren't right next to each other to compare.
From the first thread:
(http://www.ustream.tv/decoraheagles#...medium=3064708 at the bottom there's a FAQ)
Which is the male and which is the female?
It is hard to tell the difference unless they are both on the nest. The female is larger than the male. This female has a ridge above her eyes that goes further back than on the male, and her eyes are surrounded by a greyish shadow; the male has a line around his eyes that makes them look “beadier.” Some think that the male’s head is “sleeker” than the female’s.
The bolded part is what I look at.