Snipped for space and BBM.
This came from reporter Kevin Torres twitter. He has been covering this case since Dec and spoke with Bender on the day the remains were discovered.
"Family instructed not to talk to media"
https://twitter.com/kevinltorres
TY!!! This info clears up the confusion regarding whether or not LE asked the family to not talk to the media.
BBM: It's not that he said anything before other family members, it's that he is giving out information that LE might want to be kept quiet. If one assumes that the perp is NOT Mark, then he has just given out information that could jeopardize the case against whomever committed the act. A parent should not want to jeopardize a case against whomever killed their son, and if told not to talk to media, should not talk to media, even if it might have been for only a certain amount of time (I have no knowledge of that, that is just a possibility).
After MR immediately gave media interviews, divulging certain grisly details regarding poor Dylan's remains, he'd already let the cat out of the bag, so to speak. Anything EH said a couple of days afterward (regarding her son's remains) was, IMO, in response to what MR had already said to the media.
I was absolutely stunned when I read/heard MR's recent interviews. It was if he couldn't wait to talk about it (despite LE's admonition to not talk about it to the media). Hearing/reading MR's comments, it was as if he was talking about a complete stranger - not his precious son, whose tragic, scattered bones had just been found.
One would think that if MR truly cared about protecting the investigation, that he would not have gone on an interview blitz, sharing details with the public that not even LE had shared. Based on various articles I've read, LE had only divulged that some bones (not specified) & other items (again, not specified) had been found. IIRC, it was MR who provided the unsettling details regarding what searchers had found. I could be mistaken, but that's what I remember reading/hearing.
Based on MR's recent statements/actions, I'm left with only one conclusion: It appears that MR doesn't care about protecting the investigation. It appears that MR is only interested in trying to protect himself, regardless of how it may affect the ongoing investigation of his little boy's murder. MOO
MR claims he's only interested in "the truth". IMO, if that were true, he would have kept his mouth shut about what LE had shared with him, especially since LE asked him to not talk to the media about it. It seems to me that MR wanted that information out there for a reason, and I believe the reason is more than likely a self-serving one.