At some point, JS mentioned to PS that the doc took her off Abilify. PS associated it with Abilify -- he said JS told him she was taking it, otherwise, he'd not have known the name except for the ads on TV.
After the accident, PS told JS she was not driving the kids anymore, and certainly not if she was drinking. She went into rehab. They did not remove alcohol from the home.
When JS went to rehab, PS's Mom came. Julie had called his Mom to come to help. PS said his Mom and Julie got along. He was not aware of issues between them.
PS went to pick up Julie at rehab on the Sunday after Thanksgiving. On Thanksgiving vacation, they went out of town. When he brought JS home, they stopped at lunch to talk about things. PS told JS she needed to show the kids through her actions that she was changing her behavior -- not just her words. Kids aware she'd had an accident and that it involved alcohol.