Not counting any roommates, it's CLEAR there was only ONE ADULT in that whole household. And she was 13. (And barely that.)
You've got a mother who either numbed herself from what was happening or resigned herself to it.
Well, as long as he's not hurting her.
Well, as long as it's not all the time.
Well, as long as she is kicking and screaming.
Well, as long as their are no bruises.
Well, as long as they don't run off together.
Well, as long as I can get the sleep I need.
Well, as long as she's doing well enough in school.
Well, as long as he's willing to watch her when I have to work.
Well, as long as...
It's almost like it turned into Sister Wives. Wife 1 gets the primary, public (appearance) of a relationship while Wife 2 is responsible for birthing the babies.
I want to be 1000% wrong.
But MS's friend knew MS was late. Later MS apparently told her she was back on track but MS might have had reason to fib.
Pregnancy tests in the home --
MS saying she wanted to go live in the woods at 13, if indeed she said that. To get away from the immature adults in her life. To raise a baby....
I dare say, if that poor child WAS pregnant and DID run away to the forest, she and her baby would have had a chance at least, at life. But honestly, if JS and SS stayed back at those, and MS left for the Hundred Acre Woods, she'd have stood a better chance of raising a baby in the woods and on her own than in a house with ... we'll, what she'd have run from.
Sad, sad commentary.
Why was the burden on the child? Why was she left to navigate school, puberty, life, SS & JS and their weird arrangementship, and SS and all the years of nasty abuse? Left to fend for all of it while the adults abrogated their responsibilities?
So, so, so unfair.
And yet we still have SS whining about how hard he has it.
How much longer until we can forget he ever existed?
JMO