IMO BB was not keeping his child safe and he was enabling. I get that he's learned the hard way, he's suffered greatly and will have already made changes, plus he was SB's former victim of abuse so he could have been psychologically altered, beaten down, brainwashed by her.
I hope he and his son can revoke SB's parental rights and disconnect if that's what they want.
There was a family court order came up somewhere that showed SB was not allowed to drink whilst having her son. However, she should have been on supervised only visits at best.
BBM:
We know BB had to call SB every time she was scheduled to pick him up from school to make sure she would be there.
How did BB know if she had been drinking or not?
We also know that she probably didn't have to take a breathalyzer at the school before they'd release him to her, if a school would even do something like that.
She could have been drinking and when she picked him up stayed in the car or stood somewhere where he could see her but not be close enough to any adult who would smell alcohol on her breath.
A few years ago at the elementary school my 2 little g'daughters attended a mom had been drinking and the school called LE and she was taken away.
I love to know what involvement the school had with SB over the years.
I read that when SB was first jailed BB and their son would visit her but that eventually stopped and I don't know when.
In SB's letter to the judge she complains about her son being mean to her when she calls them.
Why the hell is BB taking her calls not too long ago?
I wish both BB and especially his son only the best but it can be tough having a teen under the best of circumstances and what this child was exposed to for years had to have been pure emotional hell for him and he could very well be a candidate for PTSD.
BB obviously lacked all parental tools for even understanding what a healthy and stable childhood looks like no less try and achieve it .
My BB rant is over..until the next time.