Wow. I listened to the phone calls from Joe to Kendra.
They are both 100% detached from reality and all cult jello brain.
Kendra is dealing with her charges, she shares with her husband, and he's like, oh, yeah, I saw they served me with something, but I couldn't deal with it, so I just glanced at them then read the bible they gave me and it gave me peace. Meanwhile, Kendra is trying to take care of the family business and the charges she's facing while, it appears, pretty seriously, chronically ill.
Every time Kendra brings up her realistic stress, Joe talks over her, then tells her he has the same or worse problems but he gets peace from reading the bible and zoning out. So she stops talking about herself and turns to talking about his comfort and need to have things to read.
Her children are not in her custody, it appears from what is said in the phone call, and she wonders if he has a pillow and enough reading material.
He admitted to molesting a nine year old, and she wonders if he has a pillow and enough reading material.
They have no idea how messed up it is to be concerned about if Joe can find peace with being in a jail cell, when their own children have had their lives turned upside-down, and a teenager has to deal with the fact that Joe molested her when she was nine. (As is alleged that occurred and that he allegedly admitted to.)
They talk about seeing what God has planned for them, because it is apparently all about their journey through charges of endangering, imprisoning, and in Joes case, molesting children. It's all about them...or maybe it's all about Joe.
Meanwhile, Joes family are quadrupling her dependence on him while he is incarcerated, lessening the odds she ever leaves that headspace and focuses on the victims, not Joe, and her own heath, not Joe's comfort.
It's painful for me to listen to. And I'm not one of the victims.
MOO