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How many chances should they get though?. Grandma has lost custody of 2 generations of children now, would reunification be in the best interests of the remaining children?. I think she has shown she doesn't make the best decisions in terms of the children's welfare. JMO
There is no one right answer, because everyone's circumstances are different and we have no idea of the true details of anyone's involvement with CPS/DCFS without being involved at a case level. I understand frustration at the way people treat their (children, spouses, pets, property), because we all have a standard in our heads that we compare things to in order to arrive at our own conclusions, but one thing we all have to remember is that each state has its own standards as well, and their agencies operate within those guidelines, whether we agree with them or not.
The department will present the information they learn to a judge, and that judge will be the one to make decisions regarding established goals for the family, their progress in meeting those goals, and whether they have made enough progress to safely return the child or move towards a different form of permanency. It's quite possible that with the right education and opportunity, either of these women could turn out to be terrific parents; by the same token, they may never advance beyond their current knowledge and behavior and lose these kids permanently. No one knows how it will go until it plays out.