I have to imagine that somebody will bring that up and discuss it. When I'm trying to figure out where something leads, I follow it completely down the path. As some of you know, initially I completely gave her the benefit of the doubt in thinking that she was just trying to cover up the affair out of embarrassment. But as the trial unfolded and I really started picking apart the pieces of the testimony, this is where my thoughts lead me...
Did Andrea have an affair... IMO, yes, I believe there is substantial evidence to support that their relationship was much more than friendship.
So then why did she work so hard to cover it up; was it just out of embarrassment? I could see her feeling this way for the first few days... maybe slightly longer...
But as soon as the cops starting digging in to her phone, computer, other media, travel records etc AND started confronting her with very direct and serious statements about the importance of being honest (implying she could get herself in serious trouble), anybody without something to hide would fess up. Is it more important to find your husband's killer or to maintain your perfect appearance? Even if she's completely cold and doesn't care about her husband's killer, for nothing else, to preserve herself from going to jail... she should have fessed up. She should have said, oh my god I'm terribly ashamed... I did have an affair, I was too afraid to say anything but I'll give you everything you want. I just want to find his killer. Doesn't that make a lot more sense.
So with all that said... she didn't do that. She has fought tooth and nail to deny this affair, and has dragged her mom and friends in to it.
There are only two reasons that somebody would deny it to this level... either she didn't have an affair or she has something else to hide.
I think the evidence clearly shows she had the affair. So what are you left with...
That's how I started to turn around and really realize that it was much more. Who knows if the jury will go thru that exercise, but I have to think that some will.
Sorry for the long winded answer. I struggle with being brief