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OT: Casey Anthony's lawyer on Dr Phil tomorrow
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Obviously a meth addiction would be more harmful to a family than a food addiction. JMO.
But Ktgirl makes a good point, IMO, regarding how a person with an addiction can automatically fall back on that addiction to deal with stress in life. It doesn't excuse Dan's behavior in any way, but it does explain it somewhat.
I agree that Dan owed it to Lyric, and owes it to Dillin, to be a good father. Unfortunately, I believe his addiction is too strong for him to focus on his duties as a father.[/quote]
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Ty, Marilynilpa, for your kind response. Aside from it letting me know that, at least, one poster here believed me when I said I wasn't "attacking Ktgirl's thoughtful opinion," it gives me a chance to expand my thoughts.
#1 - BBM - I totally agree w/both of you regarding the influence stress factors have on addiction. I can only (gratefully so) imagine the amt of stress produced by having a child abducted/murdered.
IMHO I would probably be more understanding, and thus more sympathetic, if one formed a Meth addiction after the horror this family has faced. (It seems to me that Court Docs & MSM contradict that being the case).
#2 - BBM - Forgive me for having a different thought to your comment than I think you intended:
My thought and question to the brd: If DM can't/won't do it for his children, then can we seriously expect that he'll do it for you/me and ours????
Meth can stay in your system for over a week. Depending on the amount used it could be out in as little as 72 hours or up to even 10 days, so who knows how often he'd used. I don't think it's a huge surprise to anyone that during that time that he'd revert back to using. It's a coping mechanism for an addict.
What's MORE surprising (to me anyway), is that they knew he was using and he broke probation. If he's such a bad person and a danger to himself and the community, etc...why didn't they arrest him immediately when the UA came back dirty?
From the looks of the report it looks like police/probation officer weren't too concerned about the fact he'd allegedly tested positive...on more than one occasion. They waited until NOW to decide he'd broken too many appts. with his counselor and probation officer and dropped too many dirty UA's?
They could have arrested him immediately following the discovery of the girls bodies (if they were cutting him a break because the girls were missing) and didn't.
He himself went to a mental facility for help the day after the girls bodies were found (which could ALSO be interpreted as a danger to himself) and no arrest then either.
I think there is something else going here...no idea what it is...but the timing is just off for me. They had plenty of opportunity to arrest him prior to now and didn't...why?
Meth can stay in your system for over a week. Depending on the amount used it could be out in as little as 72 hours or up to even 10 days, so who knows how often he'd used. I don't think it's a huge surprise to anyone that during that time that he'd revert back to using. It's a coping mechanism for an addict.
What's MORE surprising (to me anyway), is that they knew he was using and he broke probation. If he's such a bad person and a danger to himself and the community, etc...why didn't they arrest him immediately when the UA came back dirty?
From the looks of the report it looks like police/probation officer weren't too concerned about the fact he'd allegedly tested positive...on more than one occasion. They waited until NOW to decide he'd broken too many appts. with his counselor and probation officer and dropped too many dirty UA's?
They could have arrested him immediately following the discovery of the girls bodies (if they were cutting him a break because the girls were missing) and didn't.
He himself went to a mental facility for help the day after the girls bodies were found (which could ALSO be interpreted as a danger to himself) and no arrest then either.
I think there is something else going here...no idea what it is...but the timing is just off for me. They had plenty of opportunity to arrest him prior to now and didn't...why?
Here's some questions I have:
How many times has Daniel tested dirty since the girls went missing? Was he not on supervised release? Regardless of what excuse he has for testing dirty, the state and federal laws don't have clauses that allow ANYONE to be exempt from breaking probation/supervised release regardless of what traumatic events may have taken place.
Are we to feel sorry for him because he was using drugs to cope? Was he not using drugs prior to the girls missing? I'd say obviously he was, him and his significant other both appear to have very longgggggg criminal records, most of which are connected to drugs. Isn't it obvious his and her addictions were/are too strong for either one to focus on duties of being parents? I would think that's rather obvious, others have had custody of their two children longer than they've had custody of them themselves.
Is it not usually a parental instinct to want to provide for and protect your children from harm? Then what about the sibling and concern for how things have affected him?
Do meth addictions/drug addicts have any sense of logic? If not, then how do they manage to stay out of jail from multiple drug arrests and convictions?
Why may Elizabeth been involved? Was there family turmoil BEFORE the girls went missing?
The link below shows on page 3 of the court documents that Daniel went to Allen Hospital mental health unit on December 10, 2012 and left LATER that day.
IMO, some people will do anything to play the game...and more times than not, at us taxpayers' expense.
http://www.kwwl.com/story/21136773/2013/02/12/dan-morrissey-tests-positive-for-drugs
Also the who's in jail site has been frozen since Monday 2/11/2013 and doesn't show anything about Dan's arrest. Anybody knows whats up with this?
http://www.bhcso.org/WhosInJail.aspx
I also think we need to stop all the Dan bashing. Would Lyric like hearing her dad being constantly put under a microscope and all his dirty laundry aired in public. I highly doubt it. jmo
wonder what prompted Heather and Drew to shut down their fb pages?
wonder what prompted Heather and Drew to shut down their fb pages?
If it was just shut down, perhaps it has something to do with all the accusations against the non-custodial parent of one of the murdered children.
But haven't those accusations been going on since July?
wonder what prompted Heather and Drew to shut down their fb pages?