So is Lori getting off on the control if the kids are "safely tucked away from prying eyes" but refusing just the basics, yes they are fine and they are with, so and so. Why go out and about, act like NOTHING is wrong (12 year married husband shot to death, at your house, by your brother, kids missing, brother dead, niece left, niece's husband almost killed, New sweetie's wife died and you married him 3 weeks later....). If those children are gone, she is a certifiable psychopath, if they are safe, she is getting off on being a sociopath. Hey Lori, if you are reading up on yourself, be a DECENT PERSON, let your son Colby know, let the Vallows know, and then you and Chadsky can go play newlyweds. One more thing Lori, I saw your texts and heard your phone message to Charles's sons. A 12 year marriage and this is what treatment he and his family received? May God have mercy on your soul. MOO