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I have read about criminal cases for over three decades and one of the glaring things I have noticed along the way is the vast difference in how society preceives males who are victims of abuse from females.... from females suffering the same fate from a male. Admittedly it has made me angry for many years and has been one of my pet peeves. Everyone who suffers any kind of abuse deserves the same consideration in our justice system ....the gender should be irrelevant.
I am naive I suppose to really believe in
'justice for ALL' but this is what I truly believe and want to see happen in our country. I have read many heartbreaking stories about men who were emotionally, physically, and sexually abused ..some of them even by their own mother.

The inner scars, fear, humilation, shame, and inner pain they experience are no different than when women endures the same except it seems females have a stronger support group and will tell what happened to them more often. No wonder males are 10 times more likely to contemplate suicide and carry it out if they are victims of sexual abuse. They feel all alone and many times they are.
Our society as a whole sends such a wrong message about males who are sexually abused by females. The male is supposed to feel lucky by society's standards and when they dont feel that way they are ridiculed and then they believe something has to be wrong with them rather than their abuser. Accused over and over that they had to have wanted it or it wouldnt have happened.
I have even been shocked and sickened by seeing some say a man cant even be raped or seriously physically abused by a smaller female and these opinions werent said years ago......they have continued to be said even when all should know better by now, imo. With ignorance comes biases, imo. It also shows why men are the least likely ones to report abuse done by a female. Has society's views caused them to be reluctant to do so? Imo, yes. Most of the time they are not believed even if they do tell.
One thing my own experience with my ex did not do..it did not leave me with personal biases against (any nor all) males in general. After three years I actually forgave my ex and he is no longer the man he once was. If I had been so closed minded I would have missed the love of my life who I have been happily married to for almost 30 years.

I wish things had turned out the same way for Travis and wish he had a chance to find the love of his dreams.
I have no doubt that Travis was psychologically and sexually abused by Jodi Arias. All the red flags are there. He was fearful of his murderess or he would have never told his friends that he felt she was going to kill him. He saw the eratic and violent behavior esculating just like I did in my situation. My fear was well founded because after 10 and a half months after I left my ex he tried to kill me and almost succeeded. Did I report him to the police before that happened no matter how much he abused me? No, I protected his secret for years due to the paralyzing fear I had of him. Once he hurt me so badly that it required intensive care treatment for three weeks it was out of my hands and in the hands of the justice system which was a turning point in my life.
Imo, Jodi Arias is gulty of murder one.