Jodi Arias Trial: the weekend discussion

[kkdj]

OMG, I'm so glad that I'm not the only one thinking that this is the case. I feel that she was most definitely the dominant figure in this relationship. I think that he was the passive one. If there was a master/slave thing going on, I have no doubt that she was the mistress/master part of the equation. He was a virgin and she "taught" him everything she knew about sex. I wouldn't be a bit surprised if the KY jell was used on him. JMO.

I guess I'd be interested in knowing from her other ex's what type of kinky stuff she was into. I mean if she were experienced and Travis were a virgin, well you know where I'm going with this right?

 

[Linda7NJ]

For the record, Travis had some pretty IMO kinky fantasies himself that he shared with her in a recorded phone sex conversation.

 

[Karmady]

OMG, I'm so glad that I'm not the only one thinking that this is the case. I feel that she was most definitely the dominant figure in this relationship. I think that he was the passive one. If there was a master/slave thing going on, I have no doubt that she was the mistress/master part of the equation. He was a virgin and she "taught" him everything she knew about sex. I wouldn't be a bit surprised if the KY jell was used on him. JMO.

I don't think there's any way we can know for sure whether he was a virgin when he met jodi or not and probably no way we could ever know for sure. Personally, I very much doubt it. Most LDS are married in their late teens/early 20's and there's a reason for that, imo!

 

[ATasteOfHoney]

Anyone familiar with this book?
I see the seller of the defendant's ebay drawings purchased a copy back in December, 2012.

Social Psychology (Available Titles Cengagenow): Saul Kassin, Steven Fein, Hazel Rose Markus: 9780495812401: Amazon.com: Books

Looks like someone is taking a Social Psychology class at a University. Many of those books are by Cengage (as this one is) and many times they interact online with the classes themselves--you know, summaries, exams, interactive lessons.

 

[lonetraveler]

Linda, I'm going to admit this only because I like you; I raise roaches. Yes that's right. Got a gigantic tub full of them right now. I need to go feed them soon. So, anyway, when they shed, they are white until their new skin dries and hardens. I imagine that's what he saw.

(disclaimer: the roaches are for my lizards)

Blaptica dubia - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

GAG, I wish you had not said that, I feel like something is crawling on me..........................dang.

 

[Linda7NJ]

I don't think there's any way we can know for sure whether he was a virgin when he met jodi or not and probably no way we could ever know for sure. Personally, I very much doubt it. Most LDS are married in their late teens/early 20's and there's a reason for that, imo!

Isn't there an abundance of problems in that population with addiction?

 

[lonetraveler]

I don't think there's any way we can know for sure whether he was a virgin when he met jodi or not and probably no way we could ever know for sure. Personally, I very much doubt it. Most LDS are married in their late teens/early 20's and there's a reason for that, imo!

Yep, I can fully understand why they marry early when they can't have sex until they marry.

 

[lonetraveler]

I don't think there's any way we can know for sure whether he was a virgin when he met jodi or not and probably no way we could ever know for sure. Personally, I very much doubt it. Most LDS are married in their late teens/early 20's and there's a reason for that, imo!

Of course we have to take his word for it unless someone has photos of course, LOL.

 

[kkdj]

For the record, Travis had some pretty IMO kinky fantasies himself that he shared with her in a recorded phone sex conversation.

Yes I've heard about that. But (and I have no idea at this point) was she the trainer of his sexual fantasies? I mean for a virgin, he sure seemed to be open to exploring things some people never explore!
Imo

 

[lonetraveler]

I guess I'd be interested in knowing from her other ex's what type of kinky stuff she was into. I mean if she were experienced and Travis were a virgin, well you know where I'm going with this right?

Oh yeah I know where you are going with this. I also would really like to hear from her exes what she was like, but then maybe they didn't claim to be virgins. Maybe Travis claiming to be a virgin made her want to be in total control over his "training".

 

[Linda7NJ]

Yes I've heard about that. But (and I have no idea at this point) was she the trainer of his sexual fantasies? I mean for a virgin, he sure seemed to be open to exploring things some people never explore!
Imo

IMO fantasies are just that. I've read that many women have rape fantasies...that doesn't mean they would ever enjoy actually being raped! I'm not going to assign judgement to any of their sexual proclivities or lack of.

Doesn't matter to me.

The only point, Jodi was no sweet innocent submissive virgin

 

[manzana]

Maybe Travis claiming to be a virgin .

Do you have a link to where Travis claimed to be a virgin?

TIA

 

[TigerBalm]

Extra: The 911 call
Friends discovered Travis Alexander's body in his bedroom, days after his murder. Listen to excerpts of the 911 call placed on June 9, 2008.
http://youtu.be/3yx3qeKPyO4

Jodi Arias - Travis Alexander 911 Call
An audio recording of the 911 call that was played in court during Jodi Arias' murder trial in Jan. 2012.
http://youtu.be/gNfBCAmuwyY

 

[Karmady]

Isn't there an abundance of problems in that population with addiction?

That's something I don't know. Every single one of my lds friends (other than one that's a relatively recent convert) is married to their first and only husband, and I don't think they would ever talk about it if it was a problem in their marriage except MAYBE to other lds.

If it's a big problem in society in general, it would stand to reason it's an even bigger problem in the lds religion for the obvious reason, though.

 

[kkdj]

Isn't there an abundance of problems in that population with addiction?

Really???? Gosh darn I never thought about that! After watching some of that, losing ones virginity would be a drop in the bucket I would think!

 

[lonetraveler]

I guess I do not know how to explain this.

He does not respect her. Yet he is willing to have sex with her,

When I had a really great body, it made me ill to think of some guy only wanting me for sex. If only now. Lol

That did not interest me. I always figured they should go buy a rubber doll or take care of their issues themselves. It is not flattering to be something a bit better than masturbating.

Well according to Travis he was a "dildo with a heartbeat" to her, so I don't think it was one-sided.

 

[TigerBalm]

The seller is her mother

lol, yeah I know

 

[BrownRice]

IMO, Of course JA does not deserve respect now. But she sure did when TA was bedding her.

Why does she deserve respect?

 

[BrownRice]

I heard that PPL is a scam, Did Travis know this?

I tried to find the Op of the autopsy picture but I didn't want to keep on going back page after page etc. in order to find it.

someone posted on MDS, out of ALL the 12,000 death entries this could be one of the most crazy. (I def. agree with them).

It is NOT a scam. It is completely legitimate. I am very familiar with it (I am not a sales rep). It has a similar business plan to AFLAC, ACN, Amway, Mary Kay, etc.

 

[kkdj]

IMO fantasies are just that. I've read that many women have rape fantasies...that doesn't mean they would ever enjoy actually being raped! I'm not going to assign judgement to any of their sexual proclivities or lack of.

Doesn't matter to me.

The only point, Jodi was no sweet innocent submissive virgin

Oh I'm not meaning to judge either one of them either for whatever 2 consensual adults do in the bedroom. I wouldn't care if they dressed up like batman and robin as long as they are both on the same page!
But I can't help but feel funny about the dynamics in their relationship.