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While I completely respect and agree with what you're saying here, the thing that gives me pause in this case is that his denial is not a new thing. He's been denying the abuse long before L went missing. Not saying he isn't in denial of her being responsible for L's loss.One of the stages of grief is denial. Denial can actually repeat itself throughout the grief process. Jonathan may be in denial one minute and then the next he may come closer to the truth and then jump right back in to denial. I get and understand the stages of grief. The stages of grief are the same no matter what situation you go through. I have went through my own grief for the last 10 years. Losing a husband to deportation, daughter getting cancer and finding out on top of that that I'm the one who passed a genetic mutation on to her, divorce. I did wallow in my grief shortly. But I made myself snap out of it because my kids needed me. Once I was able to put my mind to it I was able to get my crap together and do what I had to do. Then I was able to grieve in silence without the chaos. Point being, Jonathan needs to get his crap together. This is about Lucas and Lucas deserved better. He will have a whole lifetime to grieve if that is what he chooses but now he needs to do the right thing by Lucas.
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