Thank you! - We are “grandparents “ with custody of our 2 year old grandson (he will be 3 next month) people never assume we are his grandparents always his parents.
I wonder if this is grandparents with custody of this child. It’s becoming sadly all to common these days. I’m hearing that’s the case but I’m looking for confirmation from the correct source. For now I’ll say imo that’s possible. I also have to give Grandma a pass on sleeping till 10. If In fact this child is autistic. My now preteen is n/v autistic. She regressed quickly within weeks of turning 3 and she like many kids with autism didn’t sleep regularly at all. She would nap 15 , 20 Mins every 4 or 5 DAYS. This went on for 18 months until we found a dr who actually helped her. She isn’t able still to sleep her brain can’t not shut down. She has to be medicated still to this day! So if this child is like most autistic children then it’s possible the child napped and Grandma was so exhausted she slept while she had the chance. This was time in life was pure HELL , there’s no functioning no normal when you never sleep.
My child also Eloped we had bolts and chains but she still got out. Caught her later using a broom handle to undo those locks. It took ONE time for that to happen though and we put more locks up alarms didn’t work for us. Then I also as extra precaution when she did start sleeping at night it wasn’t always all night. So I started sleeping with her and put locks on the inside of her room to lock us both in. In case I didn’t feel her leave the bed I knew the locks would detain her if not stop her.
In this case though I can see where a mistake was made. If gpa left while gma was asleep , there wasn’t anyone to lock chain locks or latches from the inside and they obviously didn’t use the key bolt locks or she couldn’t of escaped. It’s very possible this is the first time she’s eloped. I won’t judge on the sleeping late if autism is a factor. I know 2 year olds don’t sleep that late typical, but we still use a crib and a sleep sack for our 2 year old. He’s not autistic but the trama from my daughter escaping made me unable to sleep at night once we got him. Worrying he would do the same. So at least I can sleep knowing he’s contained in the crib. Along with the million locks I still need him safe in his bed.
But autism child missing I instantly fear bodies of water. I also worry that she was in clothing not suitable for the outside weather. But I. Don’t know how the temps are there. Then suspending searches for the night have me in total tears though