I live in a farming area with several elementary schools spread throughout the county, most in very small towns Last spring there was in incident when the sheriff’s office began receiving calls from concerned residents who reported seeing a man in a silver Dodge mini van who was allegedly following and photographing children in the area of the elementary schools.
The man in question is described as a white male in his mid-50s with “salt and pepper” hair, beard and mustache. The vehicle is described as an early 1990s model Dodge Caravan with California tags, a luggage rack on top with no hub caps.
The sheriff reported that the subject has likely been active in neighboring communities, as well.
I'm trying to maintain that creepy people do seek out our children at their schools. I can't help but wonder if one these schools had a sign out front inviting the public to a fair, that this man may have entered the school. I live a long way from California. What what he doing here?
Oh God. Stuff like this makes me want to lock my grandson away until he's 30.
I don't buy into the theory that there's this magic protective force field around the perimeter of a school and that once inside, children are *safe*.
However, this pervasive attitude (that schools are inherently safe) fits with an earlier theory I posted (and am still too lazy to re-type):
I think Kyron's level of trust would have been high in
anyone he met in the school environment. (copying this over from the old general threads made before the current forum, because I'm too lazy to re-type it)
IMO, a kid in school is going to feel safe (as well they should!).
So here we have a situation where there are many kids, parents, volunteers and staff milling about. Kyron sees these "strangers" and even though he doesn't necessarily know them, logic would tell him that these people are "ok".
After all, the school itself is allowing them to be around and interact with all the kids. A perfectly reasonable assumption on his part.
Knowing he's inside a safe place, surrounded by people he knows are there to watch out for him, his guard is going to be way down. In an environment like this, I have no doubt most adults wouldn't consider the 'stranger danger' element as they would elsewhere (which btw could explain why it seems no one noticed anything unusual). So why should we expect a 7 year old child to be any more vigilant??
Given these circumstances, someone with intentions on taking a child would already have a huge advantage, for not only the kids but adults as well would never in a million years expect that something like this could happen.
Now all that is left is for that predator to find a vulnerable child, one who is separated from the group, away from an adult, close to an exit.
I believe it's not out of the realm of possibility that this was a child predator, someone who is NOT an RSO (i.e. has never been caught). Someone who is either connected to the school (however peripherally that may be) and/or the neighborhood. Possibly even had children or siblings who attended the school, maybe even a former student. Whoever this person is, I think he caught kyron separated from others and close enough to an exit that he was able to lead him out of the school without being noticed (obviously).
Because of what I wrote above (that Kyron would have felt secure in this environment), I don't think he would have fought off this person until it was far too late. I also don't believe he would have necessarily had to recognize this person in order to be lured away.
*knocking on door just down from Kyron's class*
Hey, can you help me please? I'm late and I don't want my little boy to get in trouble because I forgot to bring his exhibit in. I have it over here in the car, it won't take but a minute if you don't mind holding the door open for me. Did you do an project too? What did you do it on? Frogs! How cool! Could you get the box out of the back seat? Yeah, that one on the floor there! Thanks!
*slam*
Now this assumes that Kyron wasn't the target, meaning someone didn't go there specifically to take him, just a vulnerable child. IF he was targeted by someone who knew him and was going after him, my thoughts are that it's someone connected to his hobbies, activities, clubs, etc., OR that of his parents or brother.