Kyron's parents' statements, interviews

[BeanE]

Transcribing... I will post immediately when I get it done.

 

[ella971]

Thank You for posting. Maybe with the e-mails they can find clues as to what she could of possible done with him. I pray they find him soon.

 

[Patty G]

IMO, Desiree was way over the top in this interview.

Odd to say, for the first time that I am aware of it, that Terri would call Desiree when Kyron was upset so he could talk to his mother, and now state Desiree was trying to get custody of Kyron a year before he went missing and this was not an option because Kaine said so. :waitasec:

Sure would like to know why Desiree just didn't take Kaine to court to get custody of Kyron a year ago.

 

[waltzingmatilda]

Thank You for posting. Maybe with the e-mails they can find clues as to what she could of possible done with him. I pray they find him soon.

I hope so too ella971! I am flabbergasted with the info DY shared in this interview!

This has gone on for too too too long. Where is Kyron, Terri?

MOO

wm

 

[Tink56]

Thanks for posting.

Sad to say but I am not that surprised about the differences of opinion that has come between them. They've been amazingly and admirably unified so far but it was just a matter of time IMO. It might not be right but it's only natural that if you're divorced and have different interests regarding child custody you are not that eager to point out all the problems of your current home life to your ex because it might give him/her a weapon in a custody case, and the blended family information that we got gave me the impression that there was a lot of history simmering underneath the surface. Sometimes in the early days it seemed that Kaine smoothed over some stuff with Terri and Desiree was restraining herself not to say some other stuff when they were doing pressers together. She's been more free spoken IMO in the interviews she's been alone. I get that feeling anyway.

I want to see those emails about Kyron. Or maybe I don't. I guess that's what DY was referring to when she said they were sickening?

On the emails...I don't have time to re-listen to the tape right now (thanks to BeanE for transcribing them, in advance)...but I thought I heard Desiree say that "the police showed them to her on Friday"...If this is true, I wonder why they've waited so long...I wonder when Kaine saw them..This is a mess.

I do agree that it was only time before DY would need to blame others including KH (Stages of grief and all that)...They've done wonderfully well at being united, but the are divorced. They had irreconcible differences. KH probably was foolish to think that TH could take good care of KH while she was so angry...such a dunder-headed male response...sorry for the sexism.

I am saddened, but not necessarily shocked. There is a reason that the focus has remained on TH. I am not sure we want to hear all the answers.

 

[coopzoo]

IMO, the biggest "bombshell" to come out of this is the fact that there are emails where Terri has expressed her negative feelings regarding Kyron. Seeing how devastated Desiree was when describing the emails tells me that Terri's words must have been absolutely horrific. If I heard correctly, Desiree was just shown these emails on Friday (Nov. 12?). I wonder how long LE has had them...

 

[joeskidbeck]

This leads me to what I think is the biggest question of all. If there are these emails in which TH talks so horribly about Kyron, why in the world are her "friends" still supporting her? Why haven't they presented these emails to LE and why are they keeping silent when they obviously know how much TH hated Kyron? Ok, I see that someone has obviously shown the emails to LE or they probably wouldn't know about them. I am not bashing Kaine, please don't take this that way, but I don't understand why he didn't let Kyron go live with his mom? Do you think it's because he believed if he did that, that somehow he would also lose baby K? After all, if TH is not fit to raise Kyron, she is also not fit to raise baby K. I'm just so saddened by this interview. Like the poster above, I have stayed away from this case for a while now because I have to believe that little Kyron is no longer with us and thinking about it has caused me a great deal of depression. I have gotten so into this case that I feel as if I know these people personally, so I just felt like I needed a break. It's so sad that Desiree can't "take a break" and walk away for a while.

 

[Boo Scout]

Watching this video with DY was heartbreaking. At the beginning, back in June, there seemed to be so much that Kaine did not want coming out - clearly we are seeing all this unfold more and more, and there were troubles that go so far back. My heart aches for this little boy and for this mother, who will live with this guilt forever. The news of these terrible emails does not shock me, but breaks my heart further.

 

[coopzoo]

This leads me to what I think is the biggest question of all. If there are these emails in which TH talks so horribly about Kyron, why in the world are her "friends" still supporting her?

Respectfully SBM.

I have to believe that these are not the same friends that are supporting her. I also have to believe that these emails were given/shown to LE voluntarily. I cannot wrap my mind around the possibility that someone would have that kind of info and keep quiet just to support TH. I would rot in he!! before I would cover for ANYONE that *might* have harmed a child.

MOO

 

[Donjeta]

This leads me to what I think is the biggest question of all. If there are these emails in which TH talks so horribly about Kyron, why in the world are her "friends" still supporting her? Why haven't they presented these emails to LE and why are they keeping silent when they obviously know how much TH hated Kyron? Ok, I see that someone has obviously shown the emails to LE or they probably wouldn't know about them. I am not bashing Kaine, please don't take this that way, but I don't understand why he didn't let Kyron go live with his mom? Do you think it's because he believed if he did that, that somehow he would also lose baby K? After all, if TH is not fit to raise Kyron, she is also not fit to raise baby K. I'm just so saddened by this interview. Like the poster above, I have stayed away from this case for a while now because I have to believe that little Kyron is no longer with us and thinking about it has caused me a great deal of depression. I have gotten so into this case that I feel as if I know these people personally, so I just felt like I needed a break. It's so sad that Desiree can't "take a break" and walk away for a while.

IMO if Kaine and Desiree had amicably agreed to a change in Kyron's custody arrangements it wouldn't have meant anything in terms of keeping the custody of the baby. It would have been put on the table only if Desiree got the custody because she could show that Kaine and Terri couldn't take care of their children or someone else called the child protection services on them. An agreement between the parents wouldn't have done a thing to change the custody of a child with another mother.

 

[coopzoo]

I, too, had to step away from Kyron's forum for a while. I can't bear the thought of this sweet boy never being returned to his family. Even with all that has come out regarding the emails/TH's alleged alcohol abuse/alleged "instability," etc., I still believe Kaine did what he thought was right...maybe stubbornly so. He will now have to live with those decisions for the rest of his life. My heart goes out to both DY and KH. They have suffered the greatest loss of all.

I can't stop wondering what in the world could be in those emails.

 

[tfrohning]

I wonder if Kaine knew she was going to do this interview... although this wasn't entirely unexpected, or shouldn't have been.

Dear God, what a mess, all the way around.

Praying for Kyron, and all the children involved. What a darn mess. Awful situation.

With Dateline on Friday. I wonder if something on that show upset Desiree.

Plus the searches on Sauvies this week-end. Timing seem weird

I did not expect to see Desiree on today show this morning

((((hugs))) Beane it plain to see your were upset. I just hope we get answers soon.

 

[bessie]

Poor Desiree. My heart aches for her. With all of the emotion she showed in that interview, I think it was just a smidgen of what she was holding back. She now says that she tried to get custody of Kyron as late as a year before his disappearance, but Kaine was unrelenting. If Terri was suffering PPD and drinking, having problems with the older son, Kaine would've been wise to let Desiree take Kyron. In Desiree's shoes, I would be furious with him.

Desiree's to be applauded for her effort to appear friendly with Kaine in the earlier interviews. It must've been so hard knowing the things that she knew beforehand and finding out what she didn't, for instance, the drinking. But she did it all for Kyron. Now, I'm really convinced that the KH/DY interviews and pressers where they appeared so cozy were attempts to rattle Terri.

And the e-mails. Desiree's anxiety level shot up when she talked about them. It seems they are damning for Terri. Wonder if we'll ever get to read them.

Prayers for little Kyron and his mom and dad.

 

[waltzingmatilda]

Can anyone tell me who is the man in the video who supports TH? His name was not included on screen. Just curious since he is in MSM. If not ok to name him just tell me so, LOL!

wm

 

[STEADFAST]

I made notes during the interview. They're very rough:

We're still a united front in the goal we want Kyron home. That hasn't changed.

I have learned of information lately "I just can't stand by and support the choices Kaine's making.

We learned of all of this information after the fact and from the media.
He had lots of chances to remove Kyron from the house.

I did not see any evidence of alcohol abuse. I didn't know about the dui.

I was aware she had some issues with pathological lying from my own interactions with her.

Starting a year prior to Kyron going missing I tried to get custody of him.
Kaine said no way. Kyron having problems in school. Terri personally wanted Desiree to take Kyron.

It's clear from Terri's horrible words (in emails?) that she had a severe hatred of Kyron. She blamed her marital problems on Kyron. She expressed in great detail her hatred of Kyron.

 

[Cazzie]

Desiree also said that TH told her that she wanted D to take Kyron.

 

[BeanE]

Transcription


Mom: Stepmom had 'severe hatred' for Kyron
http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/26184891/vp/40192247#40192247

Q

Desiree: Well we're, we're still a united front in the goal that we want Kyron home and we want answers. That hasn't changed.

I personally have learned of information lately that has disappointed me in Kaine's choices and his behavior, and I just can't stand by and support the choices that he's making.


Q: court documents ... yet he never shared any of his concerns with you. Is that correct?

Desiree: That's correct. We learned of all of this information after the fact and from the media.

He had several opportunities to let Tony and I know what was going on in the house and he did not. He had several opportunities to make the right choice and either let me know or remove Kyron from the house.

I would have removed Kyron from the house had I have known what was going on.

Q

Desiree: I did not see any signs of the alc... Yeah. I did not see any evidence of the alcohhol abuse in fact I didn't know about the DUI until after Kyron went missing.

But as far as a personality disorder, I did for years, I was aware that she had some issues with pathological lying, things of that nature, but just mostly from my interactions with her, I don't... I didn't see, you know, as much as Kaine did.

Q

Desiree: Oh yes I did. Starting a year prior to his, him going missing, I tried to get custody of him.

Q

Desiree: Kaine told me it was not an option on several occasions, and it was a point of contention with us.

He was exhibiting some problems in school and he was expressing a lot of sadness and upset at the situation, and Kyron on many occasions told me he wanted to come live with me, and on a couple of different occasions Terri had called me specifically so that I could talk to Kyron because he was so upset, and Terri personally wanted me to take Kyron.

Q (paraphrased - on Friday LE showed Desiree emails Terri had sent to friends describing her marriage to Kaine and her feelings about Kyron)

Desiree: It's very clear from Terri's horrible words that she had a severe hatred for Kyron, and that a lot... she blamed a lot of the marital problems between Kaine and herself on Kyron, that it was a huge point of contention in their marriage, and she had expressed in great detail her hatred for Kyron.

I now believe without a shadow of a doubt that not only is she capable of hurting Kyron, that it's clear that she could have hurt him in the worst possible way.

Q (paraphrased - do you hold out hope he's alive?)

Desiree: I will until the day I die.

 

[Patty G]

IMO, because Kaine put all these allegations in his divorce papers against Terri for the divorce, of which, seems to be biting him in the butt now that Desiree is on the Today Show.

If all these emails were JUST shown to Terri within the last few days, where the heck have these emails been for the last 6 months?

 

[coopzoo]

I just have to add that watching DY's emotions during that interview made me feel physically ill. She is desperate for Kyron to be found alive, but I see her hope slowly slipping away. I almost can't bear watching her talk about it. I truly hope that she gets the answers she needs.

BeanE, I can see why you were shaking. :hug:

 

[orb4me]

I see scuba divers are in the water again, Im so sure thats where Kyron will be found. The water in that area is a lot colder than when they were looking for Hailgh Cummings, but I think its still been to long, so maybe they will find the brick and rope thing. Kyron looks so much like my great grandson. This poor child is with the Lord, no more pain and suffering for him.