Kyron's parents' statements, interviews

[Calliope]

At least DY and TY have each other, Kaine has no one AND has to put on a good face for a baby. I fear for this man. His whole world has crumbled.

I think the fact that we have not seen DY or TY in public recently is because they too, have progressed to this next stage of grieving.

Kyron where are you?

Kaine is grieving not only for his son, but his marriage and his family life as well. Not to downplay her grief AT ALL, but Desiree's life is pretty much the same except for the (very MAJOR) loss of her son. Kaine has lost that, and much more.

 

[CarmelEyesD]

I think it has finally just become 'real'-and I think he knows his baby isn't coming home again-but clinging desperately to hope-even false hope. I see a man who is seeing the truth-and not wanting that truth. I also wanted to just reach out and hug him.

 

[butterfly1978]

I have not watched the video, and after reading the responses, I am not going to, I simply can't. Since the begining I have said that he is not involved, since the begining, you could see his pain. I've read his astrology chart and he is devastated, my heart cant handle actually seeing the pain. Its like watching Sandra Cantu's mother, when I think of her I start to cry, she was a braken woman the day Sandra went missing, that image gets engraved in your mind. No human being should EVER have to endure that type of pain, and seeing that pain has made me question my faith, but I know God has a plan even when something as horrid as this happens we have to beleive that even through sorrow, pain and grief and even through other peoples evil sins, God still has a plan and good will somehow come from this....
God knows how Kaine feels he lost a son too. God will comfort him and strengthen him but I just can't watch it even though I know this to be true.

 

[cocolafay]

For some reason I held off watching the video, and after reading y'alls posts, I'm really glad I did. Being new I have to pace myself and it's been a sad enough day already in some of the cases I'm following. I'll go baxk and read it on a day I'm ready to cry --- from the sounds of y'alls commennts. I like what I see and hear of Kaine, and I feel for him and the pain he has to br feeling.

 

[Emeralgem]

Kaine looks devastated and I cannot imagine the pain he is experiencing from not knowing ..

Please, let us all concentrate our thoughts and efforts on Kyron being found NOW..

 

[For The Kids]

Kaine looks 10-15 years older than he did in pictures from just a few months ago...he truly looks a different man..and the word that comes to me..is he looks totally ravaged.


I personally think whatever was said to him Tuesday wasnt good. I know that he spoke of Kyron coming home but..I am not sure he really he believes it

 

[SusieMom]

Who is "we" when Kaine talks about "we're putting up shelves" for the stuffed animals, etc? Is Kaine including Desiree in the preparation of Kyron's room for the homecoming, or does "we" refer to other family members? Just curious...

my dh and I use "we" to refer to anything done with our 2yr old "helper" even though the help is not always that helpful especially if its something that would have significance to the child. So if baby K was watching him do it, her Daddy would likely be telling her "we're putting up some new shelves for Kyron" and then it would be natural for him to use that same "we" when talking about it to others.

But he also could have someone helping him, a relative, etc. or he and Desiree could have discussed the plan of what to do with the Wall of Hope stuff, if she agreed that shelves in his room at Kaine's house was the best idea, then I can see it being natural for him to use "we" even if he did it all by himself.

 

[curiousgirl2010]

For some reason, I've ALWAYS had the best impression of Kaine. I know everyone has their personal opinion and are entitled to it, but I always felt disgusted when he has been "accused" or even "sleuthed".

I'm sure DH is devastated, but Kaine raised Kyron in a day-to-day basis. His son lived and grew up on his household. I just can't imagine what he must feel knowing he trusted Terri into their lives. Even if she's not responsible, she's clearly let him down when he needed hr the most.

Wow, my heart really breaks for KH.

 

[Aedrys]

I guess my only question is why is this video edited.

My only question is why a video where a father is obviously feeling grief inspires any suspicion whatsoever and not just sympathy.

 

[AlexisFresca]

My only question is why a video where a father is obviously feeling grief inspires any suspicion whatsoever and not just sympathy.

Amen, Aedrys!!

 

[AlexisFresca]

Kaine is grieving not only for his son, but his marriage and his family life as well. Not to downplay her grief AT ALL, but Desiree's life is pretty much the same except for the (very MAJOR) loss of her son. Kaine has lost that, and much more.

BBM
Respectfully, I strongly disagree. Desiree's life is 'not the same minus Kyron'. Her family life is also changed, not just Kaine's. Some marriages fall apart after a major loss such as the death of a child. I pray her and Tony's marriage is strong enough to withstand this very painful and tragic ordeal. The mother-child bond is a very special one. She will be forever haunted that she didn't seek custody changes sooner. She will forever regret that loving selfless act on her part, the sacrifice she made, to do what she felt was best for Kyron's interest, by letting Terri be a part of his life and living where he was. We can't begin to imagine her anguish.

 

[TxLady2]

I think most of us do feel sympathy for Kaine and what he is going through. To even lose your child for a few minutes or hours is heart-wrenching, but all these weeks must seem like YEARS to them. I can see the toll this has taken on him in his eyes.
God be with Kyron's family, and give them strength.

 

[Calliope]

BBM
Respectfully, I strongly disagree. Desiree's life is 'not the same minus Kyron'. Her family life is also changed, not just Kaine's. Some marriages fall apart after a major loss such as the death of a child. I pray her and Tony's marriage is strong enough to withstand this very painful and tragic ordeal. The mother-child bond is a very special one. She will be forever haunted that she didn't seek custody changes sooner. She will forever regret that loving selfless act on her part, the sacrifice she made, to do what she felt was best for Kyron's interest, by letting Terri be a part of his life and living where he was. We can't begin to imagine her anguish.

I do believe I said I wasn't downplaying her grief at all.

I understand what you're saying. I was hoping people understood my point, too.

 

[curiousgirl2010]

Calliope - I understand your point.

Like I said, Kaine's life is just completely shattered. He lost his son, has a baby to take care of, a job to go back to, has to fight some crazy women in court. I mean, I hear you.

 

[BeanE]

I guess my only question is why is this video edited.

There's a link to the raw, unedited video in my opening post for the thread.

 

[TopTop]

BBM
Respectfully, I strongly disagree. Desiree's life is 'not the same minus Kyron'. Her family life is also changed, not just Kaine's. Some marriages fall apart after a major loss such as the death of a child. I pray her and Tony's marriage is strong enough to withstand this very painful and tragic ordeal. The mother-child bond is a very special one. She will be forever haunted that she didn't seek custody changes sooner. She will forever regret that loving selfless act on her part, the sacrifice she made, to do what she felt was best for Kyron's interest, by letting Terri be a part of his life and living where he was. We can't begin to imagine her anguish.

If in fact she really did have her doubts about TH, the fact that she left her son in that woman's care and moved so far away from him will tear her apart. I think my guilt would destroy me more than my loss. I would not want to be in her place for even one nanosecond. MOO

 

[AlexisFresca]

If in fact she really did have her doubts about TH, the fact that she left her son in that woman's care and moved so far away from him will tear her apart. I think my guilt would destroy me more than my loss. I would not want to be in her place for even one nanosecond. MOO

Couldn't agree more, TopTop! I pray that she is getting help through counseling. It won't ever totally erase her grief, pain and guilt, but hopefully her having even just an outlet will be of help to her.

 

[chasing.halos]

Absolutely, positively, heart wrenching. :cry:

I am so sorry Kaine. Please come home to us sweet lil Kyron...

 

[Calliope]

Proof that people all over the country are still involved in this case and watching for Kyron:

http://www.koinlocal6.com/news/loca...ion-with-Portland/AHTJ7BVxD0i-Ac9BSa_BwA.cspx

questioned for 2 hours... kinda scary

 

[debs]

My only question is why a video where a father is obviously feeling grief inspires any suspicion whatsoever and not just sympathy.

All I asked was why the video was edited.