Kyron's parents' statements, interviews

[Wrinkles]

Personally, I think these people are just guarded in their answers because they are not media savvy and do not know when they say too much or too little. IMO< they are trying to come up with a way to let people know the answers to some of their questions without risking the integrity of the investigation. Perhaps they feel if the questions are not answered on the spot,but rather thought through carefully and perhaps cleared by LE, then the risk of them saying something wrong is reduced to zero.
I think they are just doing the best they can to deal with hell on earth.

Hello mon ami!

Thank you for saying it. I have quoted the above because I think it is important and worthy of repetition.

Might I say, however, that I think these people are far more media savvy than myself and that I think they are using a great deal of wisdom in how they are conducting themselves? There is a detective in the midst of the 3 (no dodo in investigations and what media does to them). There is LE assisting them with all matters (no dodos in what is important in the midst of a delicate investigation) and for the greater good of Kyron.

Can LE make a mistake? Sure, but if my child's life was in the balance (OR their being found alive or dead with the appropriate person being found and brought to justice), despite my own thinking of how clever I could be in taking it all over (mouthing off hither and thither as I saw fit), I would have to roll my dice in LE's corner. I think that everything these emotionally drained people are doing is being done with the good counsel of LE and the FBI. I think they are measuring every step and every word, and I think that displays incredible self-control and wisdom.

As you said... "Perhaps they feel if the questions are not answered on the spot,but rather thought through carefully and perhaps cleared by LE, then the risk of them saying something wrong is reduced to zero."

Yes...and I find it sadly interesting that no matter what these people say or do, there are detractors willing to hop in quickly and slay them for absolutely ridiculous things (IMO). THESE are the victims...I just don't get the detractors. They may have zero risk in terms of "following LE's counsel" and the investigation (they are aligning with good counsel), but the risk of being beaten up by detractors is 100% -- no win situation there!

To be honest...I am liking this blueprint -- and should I ever find myself, God forbid, in such a horrid situation, I will want to remember the wisdom of how these people have conducted themselves.

 

[Wrinkles]

What I meant was Kaine is providing enough fodder for her attorney to cross-examine at trial, if it comes to that. HE should have a criminal attorney to protect him as well.

Can I just say, "Sheeesh! Do you really think? I mean do you really think?"

 

[TobyWong*]

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Well, I have been thinking ever since the presser where Desiree asked TH to "fully" cooperate, that LE and KH, DY &TY have definitely been working together. I truly feel LE is letting them make certain statements that "imply" meaning without stating it as "fact". I also think LE is on board with those implications, however not allowed to say so themselves. I believe they feel the pressure on TH is to their benefit.
MOO....

Q: Was Kyron supposed to be out of school the following Friday for a doctor’s appt.?
A: KAINE – There was some discussion about the appointment but it was unknown exactly when the appointment was scheduled so we cannot comment for certain.
BBM
ITA nurseratchett! That is why this question was answered and answered this way. "unknown WHEN appointment was scheduled" IMO TH threw in the appojntment to confuse the situation w/ the teacher that day. Maybe she never made an appointment but did say directly to the teacher that Kyron would be gone for an appointment. Or maybe TH called that afternoon to make an appointment for the following week to cover for her saying it to the teacher then saying to her friend(i think) that the teacher couldnt hear. IDK but I am thankful that they did finally tighten up some questions. Especially what time Kaine saw Kyron last and what time he got home.

 

[wvjules]

I don't know either but LE investigators were at the Q&A presser when Kaine and Desiree pleaded for Terri to cooperate. I think LE asked them to make those statements, btw.
The sheriff's comment I have no idea what he meant or why he said that.

So, Kaine and Desiree saying she isn't cooperating is more believable to you than LE's direct statement saying she IS cooperating? :waitasec: I'm really confused by that.

 

[mchris1024]

I find it "odd" that KH says he put the little girl's shoes on and took her to the bus stop and that TH was following closely behind them, it's like he's pointing the finger that he now thinks her behavior was suspicious...maybe I'm just reading too much into it.

 

[Chili Fries]

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Q: Was Kyron supposed to be out of school the following Friday for a doctor’s appt.?
A: KAINE – There was some discussion about the appointment but it was unknown exactly when the appointment was scheduled so we cannot comment for certain.
BBM
ITA nurseratchett! That is why this question was answered and answered this way. "unknown WHEN appointment was scheduled" IMO TH threw in the appojntment to confuse the situation w/ the teacher that day. Maybe she never made an appointment but did say directly to the teacher that Kyron would be gone for an appointment. Or maybe TH called that afternoon to make an appointment for the following week to cover for her saying it to the teacher then saying to her friend(i think) that the teacher couldnt hear. IDK but I am thankful that they did finally tighten up some questions. Especially what time Kaine saw Kyron last and what time he got home.

That stood out to me too. Taken at face value, Kaine seems to be saying that the discrepancy is when the appointment was scheduled, not the appointment date itself.

 

[Wrinkles]

Dr. appt. response is just evasive. And dumb. Makes me think they threw it in there for pressure.

My guesses:
-they don't want Terri to know what they know about it.
or
-there was no doctor appt.

Evasive, yes. Dumb...I wouldn't be able to agree.

 

[liz b.]

I'm almost positive that I read a post about a recent interview with KH, in which he stated that he was home at 12 o'clock on 6/4. But here he says a little after 2:00 ?

All JMO

 

[RoughlyCollie]

But my point was on THIS SPECIAL day, when BOTH parents were available to pick him and his project up, I just don't understand why they wouldn't....even if the bus is the most common way of getting home from school. She drove him there....why couldn't one of them pick him up? Especially if they had some type of mini-celebration planned.
(again, maybe because I just don't 'get' the school bus thing) JMO

I don't know the situation, of course. In my experience, the child gets home at the same time whether he rides the bus or I pick him up.

The reason is that the school parking lot is crowded with buses, kids and parents who are picking up their child. It slows things down considerably, and unless there is a really good reason for picking him up, my child takes the bus home.

We used to pick our kids up from school every day because we lived 2.5 miles away and did not want to pay the $600 annual bus fee. The school had 750 students. To get a place in line on school property (so as not to back up traffic on the street outside the school), I had to get there 20 minutes early, then wait after the bell rang for my kids and the kids who were riding in the cars ahead of me in the line, before I could exit the school. All told, I spent 30-40 minutes in the school parking lot and about 4 minutes driving. When I arrived back on our street, the school bus had just arrived there.

Where we live now, school lets out at 2:45 p.m. The two bus lanes are crowded with buses (they make 2 round trips each, to boot). The schools in the complex have 5,000 students. The parking lot is full of parents picking up their kids. So I pick up my kids at 3:30, because the buses are gone then and it is much safer (high school students are swarming around the parking lot when school lets out). The round trip alone takes me about 50 minutes. They get home at 3:30 if they ride the bus, so I only pick them up when it is absolutely necessary.

As far as picking up science projects is concerned, my husband drives those who have to transport projects to school, and I pick them up on the day when their project is supposed to come home. This has never been on the same day. The bus companies in both systems with which I am familiar do not allow kids to transport large projects on the bus.

 

[For The Kids]

I find it "odd" that KH says he put the little girl's shoes on and took her to the bus stop and that TH was following closely behind them, it's like he's pointing the finger that he now thinks her behavior was suspicious...maybe I'm just reading too much into it.

Or maybe hes just telling it as it was.

MOO

 

[TobyWong*]

I find it "odd" that KH says he put the little girl's shoes on and took her to the bus stop and that TH was following closely behind them, it's like he's pointing the finger that he now thinks her behavior was suspicious...maybe I'm just reading too much into it.

I think things like this came slowly to Kaine. And now he's telling us that "yes it was different than normal" imo. When i see that first PC where (to me) TH is looking so guilty she might explode and her unsuspecting husband is standing beside her, I just feel so bad for Kaine. Even if they wer'nt getting along, who would ever think a person you are married to and have bred w/ could hurt your child? any child?

 

[curiousgirl2010]

I'm really impressed that some people still think Kaine is suspicious.

Really, I think Kaine has been behaving like a COMPLETE innocent and even clueless person in all this. Yes he is a "logical" guy and some think his attitudes are weird, but honestly?

Nothing seems premeditated in his actions at this point. He supported his wife in the beginning, presented an united front with her. As the case progressed and he was further briefed, he filed for a divorce and seperated herself from her. It didn't happen from night to day. It was a progressive process.

At first, I think it could have been possible that Kaine was in it with Terri as some sort of accomplinse. But after the divorce? If he was guilty of anything, he wouldn't have created a rift between him and Terri because he would know Terri would turn against him. It would make no sense.

I mean Terri was the LAST person to see Kyron. Kaine was at work until 1:45 PM and I am sure the cameras at Intel can verify that.

Do you guys honestly believe it would have been possible for Kaine to "trick" the cameras and electronic pass at Intel, grab Kyron from school without being seen and done something to him? IF anything he would have been in the "plan" with Terri and if this was the case he would NOT be crazy to create a huge rift with her specially now that she has hired a prominent criminal defender.

I'm not saying Kaine is a perfect guy, he might be guilty of being a bad husband, a cheating husband and even a neglectful parent - but I don't think he has ANYTHING to do with Kyron's disapearance at this point. Just guilt over bringing Terri into his son's life and possibly being a bad husband and making his wife take her anger on his son, instead of on him.

 

[RoughlyCollie]

I find it "odd" that KH says he put the little girl's shoes on and took her to the bus stop and that TH was following closely behind them, it's like he's pointing the finger that he now thinks her behavior was suspicious...maybe I'm just reading too much into it.

I don't find it odd. The bus was coming, and KH was making sure one of the parents got there in time. That situation happened plenty of times when my husband was home and we both met the bus. Usually it was because I had to find my shoes and put the leash on the dog, so he went ahead of me to make sure one of us was there when the bus came.

Mind you, I never missed meeting the bus on time. The dog would tell me a few minutes ahead of time that it was time to go. But my husband, not having as much experience with it, was always there early in case the bus came early (it never did). He is also a bit impatient -- and walking a few hundred feet to the bus stop gave him something to do.

So, TH could have been putting on her shoes, carrying her water glass to the kitchen, finishing up in the bathroom, locking the front door, or anything that would cause her to be a little bit behind her husband on the way to the bus stop.

 

[For The Kids]

I'm really impressed that some people still think Kaine is suspicious.



Do you guys honestly believe it would have been possible for Kaine to "trick" the cameras and electronic pass at Intel, grab Kyron from school without being seen and done something to him? IF anything he would have been in the "plan" with Terri and if this was the case he would NOT be crazy to create a huge rift with her specially now that she has hired a prominent criminal defender.

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Actually I do think some would rather believe that then simply believe it was Terri to blame for whatever happened to Kyron

 

[pinkhistorybuff]

Forgive me if this has been mentioned, I read the first pages of this thread last night and haven't caught up.

Concerning the doctor's appointment, my interpretation was that they've been able to confirm Terry discussed an appointment with the school. BUT, they have not been able to confirm a doctor's appointment existed (which is why they can't comment and its still being looked into.)

Again, this is just my opinion.

 

[Astrella613]

....also interesting is that it was mentioned again via Terri that the teacher was hard of hearing...

"Finster said that when Kyron didn't show up at the bus the afternoon of June 4, Horman talked to the teacher who said she thought that Horman had taken Kyron to the doctor that day. Horman told Finster that the child's teacher was new, in her first year of teaching, and was hard of hearing in one ear. "She doesn't know if she understood her," Finster said."

http://jocosarblog.typepad.com/joco...arancepublished-friday-june-18-2010-1055.html

Which only makes the whole thing more suspicious and deliberate. IMO

Not understanding what paperwork the teacher would have to fill out and why would she give it to her a week ahead of time.

 

[curiousgirl2010]

Actually I do think some would rather believe that then simply believe it was Terri to blame for whatever happened to Kyron

I do think everyone has a right to have their own opinions, but I do find it very offensive that people are trying to accuse Kaine and picking up his every word when there is NOTHING he has done to make him a suspect.

 

[wvjules]

I do think everyone has a right to have their own opinions, but I do find it very offensive that people are trying to accuse Kaine and picking up his every word when there is NOTHING he has done to make him a suspect.

What has been done by Terri to make HER a suspect? I'm talking facts, not speculation, theories, or guesses. What has LE told us that makes Terri look like a suspect?

 

[For The Kids]

I do think everyone has a right to have their own opinions, but I do find it very offensive that people are trying to accuse Kaine and picking up his every word when there is NOTHING he has done to make him a suspect.

I totally agree with you. After other cases ie Hayleigh its nice to see the biological parents both fully cooperating ( i dont mean Crystal didnt btw) and having alibis for what happened and still...thats not apparently good enough.


I just dont get it.

 

[kikid]

Please correct me if I'm wrong, but didn't Kaine say in the sit down interview he and D did on television about a week ago that he was home from noon on? I'm going to see if I can find it, but I think that is what he said last week.