PlainJaneDoe
Verified expert in neuroscience
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I can see why you would have to check it out. If something similar had happened to my child and then another girl is missing in my area, I would do absolutely anything to help find her. Maybe I would be obsessed with it. The feeling of losing a child, the everyday agony he felt while his child was missing must have been awful. The news is filled with these types of parents searching for missing people. Perhaps he lied because he can't deal with his emotions. So many men feel they have to act tough. He could still be a creep...and a good guy at the same time. But hopefully not a killer.
Yeah, IMOO, think about how many of us feel broken for Mickey and for her family, even though many of us have never been in their shoes. I can't imagine how crazy it would be if I had been in her parents' shoes and I watched them going thru this. I have had personal experiences in which I felt empathy so strong for another individual (whose shoes I had been in) that even though I disliked that person very much at the time, I physically ached. Even now it is literally physically painful for me to think about that. In this case it was the nature of the experience...it was awful for me and when I thought of him having the same feelings and behaviors it was crushing.