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AW had a lot of time away for reflection. I think she genuinely thought BW was a good dad. Good enough. Where would they be if he hadn't gotten mixed up in fraud? That's a question with no answer because BW IMO is a fraud. Business, inheritance, marriage -- he's a fraud.
AW stood by him, even after his arrest. I think it was a big unknown. Had BW acknowledged and addressed it, with his family's needs at the fore, this would have ended differently IMO. But BW wasn't interested in his family's needs. BW was interested in BW's needs. In fact, it was BW who was delaying the trial. Unwilling to do jail time. AW wanted him to plead guilty, serve his sentence. Maybe she would have stayed married for that finite time. No more GPS, no more dual households. But that all presupposes BW become someone he's not. He did not care that his wife and children were SUFFERING because of his criminal enterprise and trial thereof, including but not limited to his home detention.
Researching Porsches and reserving a NYD table point shows what a charlatan he was. More fraud. We're in a financial mess because of me, I'm on home detention because of me, we haven't been intimate in a year because of me, I'm dragging out my court case indefinitely, I'm disrupting the family, destroying my marriage but let me flash you some shiny stuff, are you mesmerized by my shimmery charm? She wanted character (accountability, ownership, correction), he wanted effortless.
He didn't want to be an attentive, present father or husband. They were all just tools in his scamtool box.
Even AW's salary jump. Dollar signs in his own eyes. Corporate life insurance? Probably signed right into her contract.
CW was right. BW didn't just want AW dead, he needed her dead.
No divorce. No losing the children (no love lost but they were serving as the basis for his house arrest) and no financial hit. In fact, opposite of that. Huge financial reason TO kill her. And then he'd have money for restitution and could get on with his scammy ways.
Well, after Monday, he can enjoy his allowance from Mother. Commissary Larry.
The gambler, an all around loser.
JMO
He needed her dead
Truly.
