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Brennan trying to dance around the sustained findings again YB and ‘the texts’ from Proctor that YB ‘liked’. lol
Except there’s no evidence John wanted to break up. No evidence of abuse. No texts, no friends confirming it, nothing. Just vibes and projection. MOO.John O'Keefe wanted to break up with KR and he actually had told her previously that their time together was over but she wasnt having it. Usually the abuser needs the control. She’s already invested in him and the kids, whether she loved or cared for them. That’s not relevant. The control is what she needs to maintain.
She’s high maintenance.
When I think back about KR's behavior: She woke the niece on the night John died and asked the niece to contact people to inquire about John’s whereabouts. KR was pacing down the hallway, asking what could’ve happened, maybe I did something, maybe a snowplow hit him, and then she leaves this young girl (niece) all alone to deal with the trauma and the unknown about her uncle. That’s an uncaring extremely narcissistic person.
Anyone that has lived with an abuser knows how the abuser operates. It difficult to get away from an abuser. She was abusing JOK, and most likely he did not disclose this to anyone. Perhaps he never realized what she was doing?
These are my thoughts and opinions. Doesnt make it right, it’s my strong feelings.
Dr. Laura Pettler was the guest on WS last week and talked about this being a domestic violence incident. Well worth a listen.
I totally agree with Dr. Pettler <modsnip>
I also noticed JO's pants had dark grass stains on the butt area like his body went flying and skidded on the grass.To me the spotless shoe indicates he was knocked out and stayed down due to injuries.
If you google KR and the results include a discussion as to what happened to JOK by the Canton locals.
The CW has Proctor on their witness list and the defense has Proctor and his wife Margaret on their witness list.Trooper Bukhenik said earlier: ‘The reason why we pair up is... people could get fired or retire and no longer be able to testify or provide their resource in future".
I have a feeling the CW won’t be calling Proctor…
I can’t imagine waking up the niece the way she did. IMO most people try to shield children from such matters until there’s some sort of certainty.John O'Keefe wanted to break up with KR and he actually had told her previously that their time together was over but she wasnt having it. Usually the abuser needs the control. She’s already invested in him and the kids, whether she loved or cared for them. That’s not relevant. The control is what she needs to maintain.
She’s high maintenance.
When I think back about KR's behavior: She woke the niece on the night John died and asked the niece to contact people to inquire about John’s whereabouts. KR was pacing down the hallway, asking what could’ve happened, maybe I did something, maybe a snowplow hit him, and then she leaves this young girl (niece) all alone to deal with the trauma and the unknown about her uncle. That’s an uncaring extremely narcissistic person.
Anyone that has lived with an abuser knows how the abuser operates. It difficult to get away from an abuser. She was abusing JOK, and most likely he did not disclose this to anyone. Perhaps he never realized what she was doing?
These are my thoughts and opinions. Doesnt make it right, it’s my strong feelings.
Dr. Laura Pettler was the guest on WS last week and talked about this being a domestic violence incident. Well worth a listen.
I totally agree with Dr. Pettler <modsnip>
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He was loving and affectionate when she entered McCarthy's and came over to him, his arm went right around her, confirmed another couple's testimony that they were both affectionate that night while with them. Truth. The video confirms this, there.Except there’s no evidence John wanted to break up. No evidence of abuse. No texts, no friends confirming it, nothing. Just vibes and projection. MOO.
Were there bruises on his butt?I also noticed JO's pants had dark grass stains on the butt area like his body went flying and skidded on the grass.
IIRC didn’t his nephew testify trial 1 that they fought all the time, toward the end, over dumb stuff and he had asked her to leave and she wouldn’t?He was loving and affectionate when she entered McCarthy's and came over to him, his arm went right around her, confirmed another couple's testimony that they were both affectionate that night while with them. Truth. The video confirms this, there.
I don't know...maybe someone does?Were there bruises on his butt?
Genuinely curious.
TYIA and IMO.
You did? I did not see that noted in the description of JOK's clothing. <modsnip: unnecessary> IMOI also noticed JO's pants had dark grass stains on the butt area like his body went flying and skidded on the grass.
The only damage to John’s lower body was a small bruise on his knee - literally a few centimeters, IIRC.Were there bruises on his butt?
Genuinely curious.
TYIA and IMO.
Those texts from the day of are pretty telling that HE seemed to have issues as well. I think they both were playing games at that time. I don't see it as one sided. I said before it's like middle schoolers the way they texted back and forth, her calling, he wouldn't answer, she just wanted a simple answer and instead he just kept it going. Then he comments about her having the plumber coming over instead of him and his dad fixing whatever it was that she had going on. His offhand comment and I can't recall the EXACT wording so I'm going off memory here and it could be off a bit. It was something like I hope he's cute or something like that I found gross. Neither of them was behaving like adults at that point.Except there’s no evidence John wanted to break up. No evidence of abuse. No texts, no friends confirming it, nothing. Just vibes and projection. MOO.
Thank youThe only damage to John’s lower body was a small bruise on his knee - literally a few centimeters, IIRC.
Exactly. The desire to see Karen punished is so intense for some that they’ve started filling in the blanks with literal fantasy and emotional projection. None of which would be needed if the CW’s forensic evidence was clear, I will add… MOOJOK never ever said he wanted to break up with Karen. According to their texts, he wanted the arguments to stop. Magical thinking. And yet he was the one creating the arguments, also according to texts. JOK seemed like an abusive boyfriend to Karen. She tried to communicate in a reasonable way and his responses were unclear and confusing. He was dragging her downwards and downwards. He failed to act like a responsible boyfriend and didn’t seem to care.
MOO
And on video from meadows....i dont see RED bulbs on the left tail light SUV....so was photo doctored?YES
"that taillight was not completely damaged. It was cracked, and a piece was missing. But not completely damaged.”
A PIECE WAS MISSING, not all these pieces being pulled out of evidence bags. JMOO
I have never in my life witnessed police officers taking photos at the scene of a horrific accident as life saving measures were under way.
IMO