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In those texts he didn't seem needy to me (except in the biological way), he seemed uncertain. KR was being vague and he sounded if anything unsure and a little guilty. I'm thinking because he genuinely liked JO.Higgins clearly wanted more than friendship from Karen, and it seems obvious she didn’t reciprocate that interest in the same way. She was friendly, flirtatious, maybe open to a FWB scenario (and seemed to know or believe JOK was doing the same), but she wasn’t pursuing anything serious. That imbalance frustrated him, and it shows in how needy, controlling, and reactive he was being.
What’s really striking is that after weeks of texting and in-person interaction, when she told him John had died… he said absolutely nothing. NOTHING. That kind of silence speaks volumes. MOO.
As far as not returning her "John's dead" text on that Sat JO was found, he probably knew all about the circumstances and what was there to say to her? They hadn't communicated much after she's gone to his house that night, on the 23rd.
Then she texts him "Phone works w/a both ways sign" His response seemed, to me, that he thought they were cooling it off and he was surprised she was texting him again. Then he tried communicating, nothing from KR until the 29th and "John's dead". I'm thinking by his not texting her back he either already knew because someone called him or he was calling someone on the force to find out what happened? Probably the former? AJMO
