CARIIS
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I think the clinicians working witht he familes are dong a diservice its time to encourage your clients to go home, vacuum, do the dishes, sleep in your bed, pet your pet, use your own toothbrush , do some laundry, move forward say goodbye and move forward...... they are going to have to do such in time, start now ............its abuse .........enough .... go home.....vent your anger at losses...........not a govt entity its misplaced anger in the cycle of grief and impedes authentic healing that must at the end of the day be completed to move forward just IMO!
they are supporting being stagnant and stuck ................therapy when done well is solely about moving forward with whatever the stop sign is about ..............
they are supporting being stagnant and stuck ................therapy when done well is solely about moving forward with whatever the stop sign is about ..............
It sounds to me like many families think the officials are completely wrong about the Indian Ocean, and they still it's possible that the plane was hijacked and the hijackers r keeping everyone alive for some reason - perhaps for secret negotiations or perhaps for future negotiations.
I cannot imagine what these families are going through.
The problem is that hijacking by terrorists would open a whole host of problems - suddenly the governmental politics would come into play, also secrecy due to sensitive-nature ongoing investigation and countries not wanting to give up intelligence secrets.
So as long as the possibility of terrorist hijacking is alive (with no plane found), then IMO there will always be mistrust as to the information the governments are giving them.
I don't really see a solution to this besides the plane being found.
JMO.