<modsnip> Your question can be answered in ways other <modsnip>.
In addition, Sheriff Gore is not all that great at investigation as various articles that have posted here have shown. Here is his latest failure with investigating the shooting death of a young man. This case was also riddled with Gore's incompetence.
http://poway.patch.com/articles/luke-lipscomb-poway-city-council-san-diego-sheriff-bill-gore
I do not think ANY of us have the answers.There has been much specualtion on this Board about DS or NR being involved in RZ's death. The orginal "mystery" concerned RZ's death. But now a grieving Mother has questions of her own. Some are quick to ascribe "murderous intentions" to that Mother, to say her questions about the death of her child are only a distraction....as if she could not possibly be a victim too. Or just be a woman who has lost her only child and in God Awful pain.
Can any deny her pain? There have been many theories presented about why Dina may be asking these questions, most of which put DS in a negative light. I chose the simple answer: a Mothers pain. If you can believe in the love between a Girlfriend and Max...can you not believe in love between a Mother and an only son?
I see no "proof" that DS is anything More than a grieving Mom. Nor, as of yet, do authorities. There is no proof either than RZ murdered Max. But, RZ does not need another advocate on this Board. There are many. But, I often feel DS does.
My point isTHIS ONLY:There is no clear way of knowing who the victim..if any...are in this tragedy. This could be a murder of a child and a suicide....or an accident and a murder...or a murder and a murder...or what the police believe: an accident and a suicide.
My post was IN REPLY...to simply to show the futilty of saying "love" proves or disproves anything in regard to potential of violence. Loving REAL mothers have, in a moment of fury, hurt their children. And in these cases, all sorts of people can say their opinions...ie Casey Anthony had her supporters. Means nothing in trying to conclude what happened here. I do not know what happened here..nor do any of us.
Whether there was great love between RZ and Max is something only those who had intimate knowledge of the family know. My point was that none of these anecdotes or tidbits from various sources have any really value in trying to sort out this case.
I freely admit it would take a lot more knowledge than I HAVE or that I believe ANY of us have...to understand what happened here. Even experts cannot agree. So basically we can either all chose a side, and chose what we wish to believe, and chose our experts, and chose our villians and angels, and chose if we like this police department or not....or hope the cases are reopened.
Some here have already chosen. Actually I haven't. I have sympathy for both families. But DS seems to have few supporters here...and many detractors. I think its important to consider Her viewpoint on the forum...for her to have an occasional advocate. Surely, since WE ARE CONSIDERING BOTH WOMEN AS VICTIMS, presenting the case from BOTH standpoints is only fair.
Like you, I have opinions. Like you, I have questions. None of us have answers.