I noticed late last night it had changed when I read another post that stated he removed the photos of her and there was a link to his profile. By the time I clicked the link the pic of them was his profile photo. I agree it seems a little odd, but at the same time I can't say I wouldn't do the same thing. He probably doesn't want their marital difficulties to become the focus of everyone's talk, if for no other reason than it might make others think he has less of a reason to grieve. I am sure he still loved her and had hope for the marriage.
GUILTY NC - PFC Kelli Bordeaux, 23, Fayetteville, 14 April 2012 - #1
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I noticed late last night it had changed when I read another post that stated he removed the photos of her and there was a link to his profile. By the time I clicked the link the pic of them was his profile photo. I agree it seems a little odd, but at the same time I can't say I wouldn't do the same thing. He probably doesn't want their marital difficulties to become the focus of everyone's talk, if for no other reason than it might make others think he has less of a reason to grieve. I am sure he still loved her and had hope for the marriage.
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I went back and listened to the interview from Nick Holbert. He said he met her a few weeks ago when she and a "male friend" were playing pool. He had asked if he could play with them the next game, they said yes and thats how they became to know each other. Voh910, did you ever see her in the bar with anyone else? I'm curious as to who this other "male friend" may be. Maybe someone she worked with/ lived near.
Like others, I wish we could clear up the "ride to the bar" problem, if he picked her up at home, why would he say she may not have wanted him to know where she lived when he took her home? IMO
Like others, I wish we could clear up the "ride to the bar" problem, if he picked her up at home, why would he say she may not have wanted him to know where she lived when he took her home? IMO
I am 99% sure when they refer to a "lean-to" they are talking about the style tent. My guess is military issued because of the number of pawn shops that sell military gear in the area.
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Again, this reminds me of a recent case. The
when interviewed said that the girl "left him" to go to another guy to get a smoke. He sounded almost jealous. Raises my hackles a bit to see this interview. I do think that some believe that they will not get caught, so they go ahead and interview. I can think of 2 very recent cases of this. In Lauren's case, he was being interviewed when her torso was found in the garbage. His interview is what lead police to question him. In the other case, in his interview, he named HIMSELF as a POI even though police had not named him as such.I can say that my daughter texts a LOT. She texts quickly, and it seems like she is texting "all" night, but it is just here and there throughout. She can "multi-task"
I wonder if she was texting her "separated" husband. This may be why she was "tired" by the end of the night. If she wants the relationship to work out, she may have been texting him. She also may have needed company because she was "down" because of her relationship problems, and just didn't want to be alone.I do worry that IF she was "spooked", he hubby may have been upset that she had been at a bar that night. She may have not really wanted to go home and be alone yet, but she just didn't know where to turn.
I too think that this is a red herring. She likely asked for a friend request earlier, and that person accepted on Saturday. Personally, I am afraid that Kelli was in trouble by Saturday.
I have to say that I have always had "relationships" with men. My best friends in HS were boys, and I seem to have friendships easier with men than women. Since she was enlisted, it seems to reason that she would have "good" friends that were males too. That does not mean that she had a lot of "guys" that were anything other than friends.
I am still worried about Nick. He is a SO, and he was the last known person to see her. In Elizabeth's case, it was a "close family friend", someone who "searched" for her, but he WAS the last person to see her - AND he was the one responsible. He also had a past. I just cannot look away from Nick yet. The not answered questions about Mike still have me puzzled too. He may have gone to FL, but where was he on the night in question?
:seeya:Why would he be in trouble for allegedly living in the shed? I'm sure I missed the reason, but I thought I would ask.
I cannot answer your first question.
In regard to picking her up, we have discussed the possibilities behind this previously. However, we do not know what the truth is at this point.
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it is not his registered address (he is an rso)
I must not have been clear, because in no way did I mean to blame the victim. I am just trying to wrap my head around the facts we have...and some have suggested she was spooked because her husband was at the apartment...and that's what spooked her...IMO, she was not spooked by her husband being there...IMO, there was something else that spooked her. I was just trying to say that if her husband was at the apartment, I don't think she would have used the word "spooked".
For some reason, I don't think I am clarifying very well today....
Agreed. Pretty sure he would need to re-register as a sex offender if his address changes, even if it was considered a temporary move.
Duh :doh:
In regard to the word spooked. 1) We do not know who originally used this particular word. 2) I think there is too much focus on the common definition of it (frightened). It can also mean "unnerved" So saying she is spooked could mean she became nervous or anxious.
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also (re: spooked).... that word came from Kelli's mother (who wasn't even in NC at the time of the interview)
I think at that point she could have heard bits and pieces of what was going on and maybe even some things from friends, etc that were not factual about what was going on
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I think at that point she could have heard bits and pieces of what was going on and maybe even some things from friends, etc that were not factual about what was going on
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fox news radio (interview with her old boss)
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http://radio.foxnews.com/2012/04/19/sex-offender-questioned-in-missing-soldier-case-video/
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http://radio.foxnews.com/2012/04/19/sex-offender-questioned-in-missing-soldier-case-video/
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No...you explained well...I just think that I was the one who misinterpreted it. Sorry for that...:iamashamed:
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He is a RSO who has a LIFETIME reporting rule, the state must know his address at all times.
Good point, her mother was incredibly shaken during her interview with JVM about this. I actually thought the mother meant that the occasion where Kelli got "spooked" was a previous ride from NH when I first heard the interview. (I think it's been clarified that the "spooked" comment referred to the ride she received on Fri night/Sat morning)
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