@beandawgs and cariis, i completely agree with your posts. this does mimic what i've seen in (non-asperger's) many special needs teens over the years. and again, no gun control position here, i don't really care. IMO autism turns into schizophrenia in many a male teenage case. regardless of demographics (social status, parental income, etc). i do have to fault and hold the parents responsible for not recognizing the signs nor symptoms, and if they do see it, don't act. nancy lanza. classic case of denial.
@jennifer17, you have yourself a very rare and amazing case with your granddaughter. kudos and mazel tov. but this is apples vs oranges. autism as you know has many different faces. each child is a completely separate entity.
BBM. I think that that was my whole point. None are the same and follow the same set formula.