Are we sure that SG refused to leave JB's home?? I can see a scenario where she goes there for the 'party', gets high, passes out, wakes up in something equivalent to Hannibal Lechter's basement, freaks OUT, and runs madly from the house. JB realizes she is gone, and he makes up the story about her refusing to leave. SG went to the home of GC, and was screaming hysterically that "they" were after her. When GC called 911, she ran from the home. According to this article, that is when the SUV with an Asian man drove up looking for Shannon. (BBM)
"He told the neighbor he was looking for Gilbert; that they had been partying and that Gilbert had gotten upset."
The article also says this.....which I have not heard before:
"The "Asian" man who was looking for her that night returned, with members of Gilbert's family, to search for her in the weeks that followed.
Gilbert made a 21-minute 911 call that morning, but wasn't able to tell the emergency operator where she was. She said she feared for her life and was trying to escape from a john.
Her mother, who lives in upstate Ellenville, told a New York Post reporter that her daughter was screaming the man's name on the 911 tape, saying that he was trying to kill her and asking for help."
If Shannon was screaming the guys name on the 911 call, and an arrest has not been made, then the guy was probably using an alias also. In other words, Shannon may not have known the real name of the John. If the Asian guy returned to look for Shannon with her family, then he has to be her boyfriend, driver, etc. He may have gone to JB's home, and believed the story about Shannon freaking out.
http://bayridgejournal.blogspot.com/2011/01/body-dump-at-gilgo-beach.html