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Soozie- here's Nel with Kim, on for about 10 mins, paraphrased.
She is coping but the scars run deep, will never completely get over it, but I have to be strong for my children, cope because we have to.
Nel: Are the children coping?
Kim: They are young and find it very hard to process. Different effects come through with the kids over the 3 years, they suffer very much
Nel: Has it changed ur life
Kim: Completely. Depression, anxiety, just standing in a queue shopping , someone will mention OP or the trial and not realise we are there. Recently at an event I heard someone start talking about his "gun complex"
I saw my Dad cry for 1st time when R dies and 2nd time when he heard I was testifying again
Very unfair on us - all this. The media
Nel: do u know about his June TV interview
Kim: Very unhappy indeed as he had opp to talk here but instead he wants to talk to the world through that. I can't u'stand why.
Nel: How does Xmas etc affect family?
Kim: Terrible. As a mum I can't have every special occasion be about the murder. My youngest is 17 - it's not fair to have the celebrations cut short. Val Day is the worst. Seating and candle , there are triggers. Dont want every occasion to be a funeral .
Nel: Uncle Barry
Kim: He is a broken man, every day spent on his phone, watching the posts about R. Not being able to protect his dau. very difficult for him
Nel: From start of trial u expected a certain thing from Op, what was that
Kim: we wanted the truth, we never got it, never apol for shooting R behind that door, don't feel the true version came out
OK I get why she was useful as impact witness now.
Nel down, Roux up ,now his cross.
my feed has gone
She is coping but the scars run deep, will never completely get over it, but I have to be strong for my children, cope because we have to.
Nel: Are the children coping?
Kim: They are young and find it very hard to process. Different effects come through with the kids over the 3 years, they suffer very much
Nel: Has it changed ur life
Kim: Completely. Depression, anxiety, just standing in a queue shopping , someone will mention OP or the trial and not realise we are there. Recently at an event I heard someone start talking about his "gun complex"
I saw my Dad cry for 1st time when R dies and 2nd time when he heard I was testifying again
Very unfair on us - all this. The media
Nel: do u know about his June TV interview
Kim: Very unhappy indeed as he had opp to talk here but instead he wants to talk to the world through that. I can't u'stand why.
Nel: How does Xmas etc affect family?
Kim: Terrible. As a mum I can't have every special occasion be about the murder. My youngest is 17 - it's not fair to have the celebrations cut short. Val Day is the worst. Seating and candle , there are triggers. Dont want every occasion to be a funeral .
Nel: Uncle Barry
Kim: He is a broken man, every day spent on his phone, watching the posts about R. Not being able to protect his dau. very difficult for him
Nel: From start of trial u expected a certain thing from Op, what was that
Kim: we wanted the truth, we never got it, never apol for shooting R behind that door, don't feel the true version came out
OK I get why she was useful as impact witness now.
Nel down, Roux up ,now his cross.
my feed has gone