...this one fact has always bugged me, and is something that (IMO) leads to walkaway.
Both the house and the Mini Cooper were in his girlfriend's name. Why? Two people of a certain age, both with stable 20+ year careers, both presumably having good salaries and insurance, I just don't get it.
I can understand the house, one could argue it was originally hers, he moved into it, and they just never got around to putting his name on it. But - why would you buy a car and put it in your girlfriends name? There has to be a reason, but what is it? It would be very unusual if, when I buy a car, I would have any reason to put it in my girlfriend's name. I wouldn't mind doing that if she wanted me to but...it just never would occur to me to do it in the first place. I think he did it so that when he disappeared, PF wouldn't have to mess around with it being in his name and she would be sure to get it back easily. Another thought would be why didn't SHE question it? If all of the sudden my girlfriend says "Hey, I'm going to buy this car but put it in your name, ok?" I would obviously say "Why?"
Of course there may be some explanation that is totally reasonable but...it just strikes me as something very odd to do.