"How do you figure? The head blow came in a fit of rage. Everything else was a desperate cover-up, IMO."
I think if she were a quite normal mother who loved her children, then after a fit of rage and an accidental (stronger than intended) head blow the rage would have vanished and she would have become desperate alright, about JB`s wellbeing and she would have called the ambulance or something- isn`t it so that JB was still alive during the strangulation?
Good, good. Let's take this one step at a time, of that's okay.
1) I like how you emphasize the "if" she was a quite normal mother. I've often wondered just how "normal" she was. And I have no doubt that she loved her children. For me (and as far as I know, me alone) the question is "was her kind of love a healthy kind?"
2) I do believe that her fit did vanish.
3) Desperate about JB's wellbeing? Well, this may surprise you, but I have often thought that she wanted to do as you suggest. But either a) she figured JB was beyond help, or b) circumstances made it so that by the time anyone could think to do anything for her, they figured it was too late.
Which leads me to
4) As for being alive during the strangulation, several pathologists have agreed that she was only barely alive when the strangulation took place, so much so that to a layperson (especially a panicked one), she would appear quite dead.
The RN contains cruel language, so to me she must have been out of her mind for quite some time.
A lot of professionals have said that the "cruel" language was just someone trying to sound like a real bad-


Now it is possible that she was in a desperate cover up state of mind, but I just mean that this is all speculation.
Maybe so, but a lot of times that's all you have to fill in the gaps left by the evidence.
No. In that rubric, he didn't "turn pedophile." He became what is called a situational molester. I've tried to explain the difference here several times, yet I never seem to make a dent.
I wouldn`t mind understanding your differentiation. But isn`t it only pedophiles who are sexually attracted to children, even occasionally when their spouse is not "available"?
I'd like to answer both of those at once.
Here goes: a pedophile is a person who is organically attracted to children because they're children. I'm not really sure why they have this attraction; probably crosswiring of the brain. A situational molester is not attracted to children per se, but turns to a child as a sexual outlet because other outlets are either not available or because their victim still allows some kind of connection to that which is unattainable. The classic example is the parent who molests their child because their spouse walked out on them. So yes, only pedophiles are attracted to children in the true sense, but you don't have to be one to be a child molester.
John could have pursued grown women also.
True, but think of what he'd be stepping into. Don't forget, that's how he ruined his first marriage. Add to that one of his daughters from his first marriage had died in an accident. Just spitballing here, but JB was the perfect victim--she looked enough like PR to allow a vicarious thrill (JR has said that JB was pure PR), she wasn't old enough to get ovarian cancer, she wasn't old enough to drive and get killed in an accident, she was very obedient (PR and Nedra saw to that) and easy to manipulate. I could go on about how children make good victims if you like, but I believe my point is made.
Again, just spitballing.
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Alrighty then. I do already have a question about the Bonita Papers, but I`ll post it on the Fibers thread. (I just think I should read much more and not ask silly questions whenever I`m too lazy to find out for myself)
Well, I've always said that I'm here to answer questions if people have them.