merlin
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Please don't shoot me, but...If Elton was staying in the same hotel, why didn't he just go knock on the door when Joran missed his dinner appointment with Elton? Something is odd about this person's involvement with Joran and the events that follow. I wonder if the two of them were up to something. Maybe the two, Elton and Joran, talked theoretically about how to get more cash... The whole thing just seems odd, the relationship with the May date and Natalie, this Elton character, and the apparent brutality. Also, why is Stephanie going with Joran to his room at that hour since she is not going to become involved with him? Who in their right mind goes to a hotel room with a strange male especially at that hour - what was the point, to get more cash before going out to eat or something? What did he tell her to get her to his room? Notice in the video, they are not walking arm in arm; she is behind him. Even at the door to the room, they don't appear "cozy". She doesn't seem impaired; unlike the video of Natalie where she clearly was under the influence of something. They are going to the room for something other than physical involvement - what? Maybe he offered drugs? I'm not saying she used drugs, but why go there? What would make a young woman trust him? What did he tell her to make her trust him? NO ONE IS TO BLAME BUT THE PERPETRATOR. PLEASE DON'T MISTAKE MY QUESTIONS OR POST AS AN INDICTMENT or BLAME OF THE VICTIM; THAT IS NOT WHAT I INTEND. There is something that is just odd about all the circumstances. It is so sad that the issues were not resolved with Natalie in Aruba five years ago so much additional pain and sorrow could have been avoided. My heart goes out to Stephanie and her family as well as the Holloways.
The book, "People of the Lie", discusses the difference between regular people and people that commit horrendous crimes. Basically it talks about regular people want to understand how something could have happened, they want to package it for their perspective. In other words, what would make THEM do something this awful, be it child abuse, bad upbringing, bad circumstances, mental illness etc.. but the point is these people don't think, act, or respond like normal people - they are people of the lie.
The book, "People of the Lie", discusses the difference between regular people and people that commit horrendous crimes. Basically it talks about regular people want to understand how something could have happened, they want to package it for their perspective. In other words, what would make THEM do something this awful, be it child abuse, bad upbringing, bad circumstances, mental illness etc.. but the point is these people don't think, act, or respond like normal people - they are people of the lie.