It sounds like you're implying something negative about women in general. I hope not!
But your comment made me think of yet another factor that further muddies this case: the Ramseys evoke familiar stereotypes and so everyone feels like they know what they must be like. John was successful in business so therefore he must be a genius. Patsy's a pageant mom so she must be a crazy bimbo. We are all susceptible to these sorts of assumptions and they flavor the theories we generate about this case, which is kind of scary.
~RSBM~
Agree we all bring biases. However in regards to whether we know much about them, I'd add the following thoughts.
Guessing most of us here have never met the R family. But many of those who were friends with them said something to the effect that they dont feel like they really knew them. Yet we may have more information about who they are/were, than various family friends who went to the Kidnapping Party that unholy morning.
Actually years and years of background stories are available. Books, newspapers, tales from former friends of the Rs begin to build a storyline. As one has watched Rs' explanations and stories evolve, so it seems their behavior is also evolving. The behavior of entitlement, mentioned up thread by DD249, is documented by their expectation that they should be treated differently, their statements simply believed, that they can avoid the traditional police interviews for months because of their stature.
We have witnessed the evolving explanations to police and attorney interviewers. Another piece in this case is evolving moxie.
One small vignette about PR and moxie was from her participation on a jury in Boulder. It occurred in the fall of 1996. From the Rocky Mountain News article:
PR served as one of six jurors in a trial last fall of a man accused of punching another man in the mouth during a pickup basketball game. The man who was struck needed extensive dental work. Jurors acquitted the defendant. But later, during a meeting with prosecuting city attorney Claire Largesse and defense attorney Steve Louth, PR criticized Louth's presentation of the case. Neither Largesse nor Louth said they would comment about the case, or what was said in the jury room. But PR complained in harsh tones that she hadn't heard testimony from a dentist, nor had she heard any evidence about damages, according to a source familiar with the case.
"It was just bizarre to both of (the attorneys), because it wasn't the defense attorney's job to do that,'' the source said.
It seems PR would take on anyone, in spite of lack of lawyerly trial knowledge, solely on the basis of inordinate moxie. And with her Southern charm, it was frequently a winning combo. JR followed her lead and joined in well. His portrayal of the cordial sufferer (imo/my take) was believed by so many. That stood them in good stead during what they called persecution by the press."
Another consideration of moxie might be viewed in the staging. In my theory that all 3 Rs had some role, imagine the chutzpah/brass neck to write 1 or 2 practice RNs in addition to the real RN, place a call to 911, go on TV telling folks to keep their babies close, establish that it was an unfair persecution by Boulder authorities and the press, which caused your family to become victims, announce to the world a political campaign. One might also add here their credentials as Christian Believers. Cant phrase it any other way except Exoneration by Public Relations, to describe what weve witnessed. Desperate moxie.
But then, when they arent believed by everyone, moxie evolves into a defiance of sorts, manifested by the actions of throwing others under the bus and suing.
TY, Moab, at FFJ for this:
October 2000 when the Rs were invited to appear before some journalism students at PR's old Alma Mater in Arlington, Va., PR used the occasion to repeat Gov. Owens' remark before asking the students
"Why wasn't the media all over Gov. Owens? Even if we are guilty, he shouldn't be the Justice Department."
(BTW, as Koldkase and others at FFJ immediately caught on, the subjunctive mood form of the verb to be would have been expressed, even if we were guilty. Perhaps sometimes its just hard to remember to use the correct form of the verb for the innocence avowal, especially after so many statements of non-involvement in the death of their daughter. Moo)
Lastly, after all this, another behavior seems pertinent. Defiance evolves into an attitude best described as whatever. They decide it will be God who will judge them, not others.
In an 2000 interview with a Christian interviewer (Scott Ross of the 700 Club) the Rs respond to a question about being welcome in a church:
JR:
Let me ask you this? What if we were murderers? Would we be denied access to a church? I hope not.
PR:
That's the people who need to be there. Aren't we "preaching to the choir" as they say.
Repeating Prendergast opinion 2013
The DA's office certainly felt it didn't have enough unequivocal evidence to convict in 1999, but the indictments suggest that there was a critical threshold of forensic material -- not just speculations, suspicious behavior and probabilities of handwriting analysis, but actual stuff, arguably sufficient to merit a trial.
All JMHO.