As a victim of suicide in the family, I have to respectfully disagree. Those who are committing suicide in spite of someone are prone to doing it where that person would most likely find them. However, those who commit suicide based on other reasons in their lives are more ept to do it in private, ie their car, behind a building, in the woods.....regardless I do agree that they can't begin to comprehend the the pain it inflicts on the family. That being said, if RN did in fact commit suicide I def. think it was in spite of someone. (I also know a guy who committed suicide because his gf no longer wanted to be with him, so he hung himself on the back of the bedroom door where she would find him in horror...he planned it that way).
I can only go by what little knowledge I have about such things. Which I am thankful to God is very limited even though I have read a lot about those who commit suicides.
I know back in 1998 when my husband's nephew committed suicide at the age of 24 he drove to his grandparents home and shot himself with a shotgun in front of their home. He had called his grandmother and told her to wait up for him that he needed to talk to her. She turned the carport light on for him and waited by the door. She heard him drive up but he did not come in .........then she heard the boom of the shotgun. Both of my in laws were in their 70s at the time and my father in law has passed away now but he nor my mother in law have ever gotten over it. They live in a very rural area and it took the EMTs and LE over 30 minutes to come. They stayed right there with his dead body on the ground until they arrived.
And over 3 weeks ago my daughter's friend for over 25 years hung herself from the chandelier in their foyer. It was right at the front entrance of their home. Her husband opened the front door when he came home and this is the first thing he saw.
IMO