Hopefully we've all become pretty jaded about all the "who did what to whom, when, where, how, and how many times" sex talk... because I'm bringing it up again. I'm begining to suspect that not everything Jodi says is true. (Ha! Kidding.) So, in particular, this nonsense in her secret testimony about reciprocal oral sex a week after they first met. Regardless of what she may or may not have told Daryl about "saving herself for marriage, starting (checks watch) now," and regardless of what she thought was OK/not OK for Mormons or what she claims Travis may have told her...here's why There Could Not Possibly Have Been Oral Sex At The Hughes' House After Only Knowing Each Other One Week:
Travis loved and respected Chris and Sky. That is a fact not in dispute. As a guest in their home, he would not have gone sneaking around at night to have a sex tryst with another guest in their home, whose room, according to Jodi, was adjacent to Chris and Sky's. Because, first of all, ew. Second of all, Travis would never have behaved that way in his friends' house! With them on the other side of the wall! And with their kids in the house! Maybe people behave that way in Jodiworld, but thankfully that's not where we live. Might Travis sneak into the kitchen with Jodi for leftovers and a chat? Maybe. But anything even remotely sexual would have been disrespectful to Chris and Sky and even if just for that reason alone, not something Travis would ever have done.
Jodi says in the transcript that she and Travis left Las Vegas on Sunday, then she had "the talk" with Daryl that Thursday because she'd already been invited to Chris and Sky's house for the party that Saturday and she'd also been invited to spend the night and go to church with them the following morning, AND she thought Travis might be there AND she thought "something might happen" because "there's kind of an attraction" etc etc etc... As we know, Jodi the delicate flower/special snowflake would never cheat on a boyfriend, so she had to cut Daryl off before whatever "might happen" with Travis actually "happened." Basically, then, what she's saying is she showed up that Saturday ready for action? But it was Travis who came to her room, right next to Chris and Sky, only a couple of minutes after everyone disbursed for the night, Travis who started kissing her, took her clothes off, initiated sex...?
It's up to the jury, of course, to decide between LWOP and the DP for Jodi. I just wish they could also add a nice loud, flat-palmed slap in the face for the sheer stupidity of her lies. It would also be cool, especially in this case, if the prosecutor had "Right of Moe" over the defendant, defense witnesses, and defense counsel.
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Yes, but ALV said that JA was vulnerable and had trouble with setting boundaries:
Willmott: Okay, and did she speak to you about her being uncomfortable with that type of sex?
LaViolette: She said she was uncomfortable because she thought it was too fast, too soon, but she didnt exactly know how to stop it.
Willmott: Alright, and she ultimately went through with it, obviously, right?
LaViolette: She did, she did go through with it.
Willmott: The fact that she was uncomfortable with the too fast too soon, but then goes through with it, what does that, is that important to you?
LaViolette: Well, the way it would be important to me is to look at it in a broader context, but certainly I think, one of the things that happens is that for many young women, it is very difficult to say no, especially if they are attracted to someone.
Martinez: Objection, other folks.
Stephens: Sustained.
Willmott: With regards to your expertise, do you speak to other women about these types of situations?
LaViolette: Yes, I have.
Willmott: And what do you learn from these other women?
Martinez: Objection, relevance.
Stephens: Overruled.
LaViolette: That when they feel pressured, theyre not sure how to stand up for themselves. Now this certainly isnt every woman, Im not trying to say that at all, but when youre a more vulnerable woman, when youre not a real assertive woman, and maybe when your boundaries arent as good, youre much more likely. And when people are vulnerable their boundaries tend not to be as good, then saying no can be a more difficult thing.
Willmott: Alright, you said a couple of things in there, vulnerable and boundaries. Does that, does this instance tell you anything about what Jodi might have been going through at this time, with regard to her vulnerability or setting boundaries?
LaViolette: It speaks to both of those things. That she was vulnerable, which was about coming out of that relationship, that she wanted stability which she talked about, that she met someone who appeared to be very stable, who was of a faith that really supported and appreciated family, and that she was probably not real strong with her boundaries, or her ability to say no. And some people are better at that than others.
Oh, you know.
JA was a victim of soikumstance.
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