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So what is a first cousin once removed? I know what a first cousin is, but I’m confused over the once removed stuff and I don’t think I’ve ever gotten a real grasp on it.People can be first cousins once removed, a variation of second cousins (yes, I know they're not the same thing) and not even know it. Family relations can be complicated.
One does have to wonder how this guy got multiple women to marry him, and/or breed with him! Was this even a choice for them? This whole family sounds like a total trainwreck.
I have to say this situation is already bad enough, but the sensationalistic journalism of the New York Post leaves much to be desired in my opinionDeranged transgender gunman Robert Dorgan was cousins with his ex-wife, Rhonda Dorgan, whom he gunned down along with their son at a high school hockey game.
The twisted relationship emerged after records showed the killer had the same name as his murdered ex and her parents, who were also seriously injured in his rampage Monday, according to the Providence Journal.
A deep dive then showed that he and Rhonda were first cousins once removed when they tied the knot in 1992
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Trans ice rink shooter Robert Dorgan was cousins with the ex-wife he murdered
Deranged transgender gunman Robert Dorgan was cousins with his ex-wife, Rhonda, who had the same last name before they tied the knot in 1992, according to census records viewed by the Providence Jo…nypost.com
Removed implies different generations. First cousin once removed would be like you marrying your cousin's kid. (Your kids and your cousin's kids would be second cousins - ie 2nd generation, no removal)So what is a first cousin once removed? I know what a first cousin is, but I’m confused over the once removed stuff and I don’t think I’ve ever gotten a real grasp on it.
I’m looking at the accusations against them by the deceased wife, and there’s a lot to unpack there from her accusations. And I don’t doubt that those accusations are likely from formal diagnoses that have been given over the years.From all I've read about this man, it sounds like he had deeply disturbing mental health issues that desperately needed to be dealt with. But clearly, were not. And now his children's lives & in-law's lives are destroyed, and the local hockey community marred forever by this vile act, as a result.
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So my cousin’s kid would not be my second cousin? Lordy maybe I’m too tired lolRemoved implies different generations. First cousin once removed would be like you marrying your cousin's kid. (Your kids and your cousin's kids would be second cousins - ie 2nd generation, no removal)
Haha nope. First cousin once removed. Your second cousins are your parents' cousins' kids. It definitely gets confusing.So my cousin’s kid would not be my second cousin? Lordy maybe I’m too tired lol
Good grief OK I am going to have to reread what you’ve said several times in order to wrap my head around it. I’m sure. I do thank you for trying to explain it to me and I’m sure it’s going to sink in after I read it a few times.Haha nope. First cousin once removed. Your second cousins are your parents' cousins' kids. It definitely gets confusing.![]()
An FCOR is the offspring of a first cousin.So what is a first cousin once removed? I know what a first cousin is, but I’m confused over the once removed stuff and I don’t think I’ve ever gotten a real grasp on it.
Correct; second cousins are the descendants of the great-grandparents.So my cousin’s kid would not be my second cousin? Lordy maybe I’m too tired lol