Brought over from Greenville Online forum:
Apparently Amanda Reagan Smith's life was marked by violence from an early age (which is no excuse IF she's the one who killed Devon). From posts I've read at the forum there, ARS's mother (according to those who know the family) was a "crack head" and was treated violently by the stepfather and was running from him after an encounter with him, and was in a car wreck and killed. Amanda met CHAD EPPS (father of Devon) at the funeral of the stepfather, who was "reportedly" Chad's uncle.
Some of ARS's upbringing could become a factor by a defense in a trial, IF she is the one charged.
Mon Oct 22, 2007 10:35 am
Amanda's dad is in prison. Well the guy she "THINKS" is her dad, but then again that is how her and Chad met, at her "dads" funeral.
nascarchick926
Mon Oct 22, 2007 10:37 am
no they said chad's uncle was Amanda's "dad" but then a few weeks later a man's mugshot appeared on tv and she said THAT was her dad.
nascarchick926
Mon Oct 22, 2007 12:10 pm** *
I have no clue which one is her real dad. Chad's uncle is dead, and the one she said was her dad is in jail.
babybrea01
Mon Oct 22, 2007 12:51 pm**
The guy that died was Amanda's stepfather, who was Chad's uncle. He was NOT her real father.(thank God cause that would of meant that Devon was a product of incest.) Her real father is still Alive and he has had nothing to do with her her whole life. He was basically a sperm donor
babybrea01
Mon Oct 22, 2007 1:07 pm**
I'll give her one thing she has had some bad things happen in her life. Her mom was in a car wreck and was practically decapitated, she died instantly. Her stepfather was hit by a train and killed. Her real father has never been around. That is why her grandparents raised her and her brother.
Dee
Mon Oct 22, 2007 3:57 pm** *
Did Amanda and Cory have the same father? I knew their mom ran under a truc getting away from their father who was chasing her and got her head cut off. I never knew what happen to the father.
nascarchick926
Mon Oct 22, 2007 4:01 pm**
No they didn't have the same father. Sonia and Brucie WAS married but the Smiths changed her last name when she died
nascarchick926
Oct 22, 2007 12:20 pm** *
No one has been named a "suspect" there is no BHS. You can't verify anything really because there is basically a GAG ORDER on the whole case. The mom is a nut case----I know b/c I used to hang out with her.
MarchHare
Mon Oct 22, 2007 9:36 pm
So ARS lost her mother, violently, at the age of 8?
I'm imagining, compounded by a sense of abandonment (which likely started long before her mother died through living around violence and drug abuse, possibly damaging her ability to form attachments) that ARS's ego was buoyed by the extra attention she probably received, the sympathy, the petting she got from others at that impressionable age during her "mourning". That disasters, far from being bad things to her, actually gave her a spotlight, and attention she craved.
Nascarchick, let me ask you or anyone who knows....has ARS, since her mother's death, always had mini disasters, dramas, and crisises that she would go running to people over? Was there always some story that put her in the center of attention? Did she always need to have the focus on her in a dramatic way? I heard from another forum that she would behave bizarrely in church for attention too so it just seems to be a pattern she may have adopted from the time her mother died. I notice that on her first myspace she had a little memorial corner for her mother...which I can bet gave her some of attention in a small way.
I can't help think how it looked like she was basking in the aftermath of the "accidental" fire.
This is all armchair, but this kind of attachment disorder, disasters being her only positive attention, might have spelled doom for Devon.
It could also be totally unconscious to ARS, but Devon dying at 7 may have been more then coincidental, but that by killing him before he turned 8 was more like killing a rival for affection. She is still, emotionally, the 8 yo looking for attention and she wasn't going to have another 8 yo in the house vying for what was hers.
Sorry, like I said this is all armchair speculation, but it boils down to a recipe for a sociopath.
Not an insanity defense, NEVER an insanity defense, a sociopath KNOWS what they do is not allowed by society, they just don't care in the pursuit of what they want.
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The response:
nascarchick926
Posted: Tue Oct 23, 2007 9:06 am
March, for as long as I can remember ARS has ALWAYS been a drama queen , always something going on to where she needs to run to someone for help.