Annasmom, do you think that Anna may look very close to what you look like? especially when you were the age that she is now. The reason that I ask this is because I was very blonde as a child, and my hair color was similar to my mother's when I was in my 30's. Also when we went places together, people often asked if we were sisters! (She loved this) So many times we would come home and look in the mirror and see same cheekbones, chins, noses, mouths, very similar teeth.
And I will now apologize for asking this since you have not been able to enjoy your wonderful daughter, and it breaks my heart.
PS I think about you and Anna frequently and read all the Anna threads , but I rarely post because I seem to have the "teacher" voice.