gcharlie
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Being as this is the Side Bar:
Dad update.
My dad died early this morning at 3:00 am. The hospital didn't contact me, but it is what it is. The mortuary blindsided my lil' brother, contacting him about the signatures need by all 4 of us siblings to go forward with his cremation.....
My lil' bro, Jonathan, was like "wait, is my dad dead?" He was expecting a call from me..I was the primary contact for the hospital. Totally caught him off guard.
So I get a call from him, "Did you know dad died?" ...wha.......?
Sad, but truly incredible! Dad died in a place he was given the best care. He didn't linger in unconsciousness for weeks on end. He heard and said what he needed to, on July 26th, when my brother took me "Skyping" to his hospital bed in Washington.
My dad gave us the most awesome gift he could have ever given us:
He told us he loved us. To be happy. He had 7 minutes of complete clarity.
He lost consciousness 24 hours later, and died 11 days after.
I am in the most incredible place right now. I wish I could have known the man that was in that hospital bed.....that WAS my dad. And he came back, for a few brief moments, and made all the darkness, grief, and pain, disappear.
I wouldn't trade that experience for anything. I am truly happy and know I am loved.
R.I.P. Stephen Carlson Garn, My Dad. I love you!
R.I.P. indeed, Stephen Carlson Garn. A man who was both loving and loved.
Bernina, please accept my sympathies for the death of your father. May you be comforted by the warmth of family and friends and most importantly, fond memories of you dad and all that he did over his long life. With the love you have for him and your memories, while he is no longer living, he will be with you in your heart and mind every day of your life.