See, I compare MY's telling her mom anything about her marriage, vs JY telling someone. While MY talked about the most important thing to her, JY's lack of understanding anything she says, JY talked to everyone and their brother, sister, babysitter,

, it was all MY and her lack of sex drive. Yet, he knew the bad experience she'd had in college. Complete lack of empathy. No understanding for anyone's feelings, except his own sex drive.
Unimaginable.
MY didn't have to tell her mom about their problems herself. He told everyone ELSE, so she could have probably found out at the corner liquor store. Or, just observe ONE TIME how he treated his wife, to see he wasn't really into MY.

IMHO, the fact he didn't want Linda in the home for any length of time, because he couldn't keep his temper in check for more than a day. He would have knock down type screaming arguments with her mom in the house and within hearing distance of his rage. He couldn't keep what went on behind closed doors all within the confines of the marriage. Oh, sure, the lack of sex part went on behind closed doors, but that was HIS complaint, so ok for the world to see. But HIS FAULTS, were NOT to be discussed. :banghead:
I believe it boils down to MY was expecting another baby, another ball and chain, if you will, another $$ responsibility that would tie JY to MY for years, and years. He just wanted the honey and that's all. Drinking with his friends. Partying more than spending time with MY. What she wanted just didn't matter. He wasn't that much into MY.
JMHO
fran