Jmho, the man I married was the man that I was divorced from after 21 years. I say it that way because 12 years into it I was made aware of so many things that had I known before hand I would have run the other way. He had the perfect job, family and freinds to help live a double life. It is so horendous to be deceived by so many. He pursued me. Susan had supporters, the church and family. The way my ex chipped away at me, wow. It was so so sick, if I dared tell anyone, we moved. So for anyone to say we dont know JP or SP, I am here to say sadly, some of us do. I will not fault religion, especially LDS, as I know and love many, just as I wont fault catholics, etc. The JPs and SPs are a dime a dozen and its the Mr Cox of the world who are becoming rare. Jmoo ps I dont argue politics or religion w my freinds and family and I am not about to do it here.