Teen mom shoots intruder dead 1 week after husband dies of cancer

  • #101
Who is defending the perp? I personally want to know what the circumstances are. If they are as they appear to be, then the shooting is justified.
But clearly police are still investigating something since they are looking for dead guy's laptop and cell phone which were missing from the truck.

They could have other crimes they are looking at evidence for. Maybe other break ins. Or rapes. Or other home invasions. There could be a lot of things. Plus they do have a responsibility to confirm what they are told about a crime. Maybe she says he has called her or sent her emails or contacted her on facebook or something. The fact that the laptop and phone went missing alone is something that would make them curious about why it went missing.
 
  • #102
she described one person, the dead guy going from door to door, never a second guy. the second guy said he never went up to the house. nobody has disputed that, though some have reported he was right behind him, but they made that up. she did not see anyone else and all we have to go on is the living dude's story. so there was not two people banging at the doors..
 
  • #103
... The fact that the laptop and phone went missing alone is something that would make them curious about why it went missing.

Makes me curious as well. I hope police realize they don't need the actual laptop to figure out what this guy was posting on facebook, for example, if they can't find the laptop, and that they can obtain his cell phone records without having his actual cell phone.
 
  • #104
he didn't stalk her, thats my point...that is made up. her mother decribed one alledged incident where he followed her at a rodeo two years ago. and she claimed she had seen him around town...and they he stopped at her house acting weird a few nights before...and left because her family was there...how is that stalking? maybe he stopped by to buy more drugs but couldn't because the family was there. and she only saw him..they were not both trying to get in. the other guy said he never left the fence. and she only reported one person.

i don't want you to take this wrong..but you just made something up. the stalking behavior you describe has never been described by anyone. like i said...go read what her mother said and go listen to what she said..nothing they describe is stalking. one meeting at a rodeo two years before...no contact since except seeing him around town...and he stopped by her house and acted strangely and introduced himself as a neighbor..thats all i found...nothing about her telling him to not come visit or stop anything...they had almost no contact...who stalks like that?

I take exception to that. You described following her at the rodeo. That is one incident. Seeing him around town. That could be taken a couple of ways. Repeatedly seeing him in different places in town, on the same days could very well indicate that he was following her. But since it wasn't stated that way, I won't even count it. Showing up at her home would be a second incident. So multiple incidents, that we know of.

The issue of him having bought drugs from her or her husband is also an assumption and one that there is absolutely no evidence of.

As a matter of fact like I said before, if living guy had told LE we had been there to buy drugs before and went back to buy more and she opened fire..... he wouldn't be in jail now. Most likely she would. But he didn't say that to LE and the evidence doesn't show that.

So yes I do take exception to you saying that I am making things up.
 
  • #105
Makes me curious as well. I hope police realize they don't need the actual laptop to figure out what this guy was posting on facebook, for example, if they can't find the laptop, and that they can obtain his cell phone records without having his actual cell phone.

Phone and computer forensics are pretty well known now. And if they don't have personnel that can do it themselves, usually they will be able to get state assistance.
 
  • #106
I take exception to that. You described following her at the rodeo. That is one incident. Seeing him around town. That could be taken a couple of ways. Repeatedly seeing him in different places in town, on the same days could very well indicate that he was following her. But since it wasn't stated that way, I won't even count it. Showing up at her home would be a second incident. So multiple incidents, that we know of.

The issue of him having bought drugs from her or her husband is also an assumption and one that there is absolutely no evidence of.

As a matter of fact like I said before, if living guy had told LE we had been there to buy drugs before and went back to buy more and she opened fire..... he wouldn't be in jail now. Most likely she would. But he didn't say that to LE and the evidence doesn't show that.

So yes I do take exception to you saying that I am making things up.

two years ago they met at a rodeo. reporter asks the girl did you know him...she said i don't know him i have seen him around town? now how should we take that? mother says in another article that he stalked her at a rodeo two years ago followed her around... third story...he showed up at her house the other night and introduced himself as a neighbor then acted strangely and left because my family was hear...are you reading stalking somewhere? two years two definite meetings if we are to believe both happened and a few indefinite i have seen him around town...if you think that is stalking then the men in your life don't have a chance..lol. i don't know about the drugs being sold, but she also said she suspected someone had been coming into her unlocked home (reporters have been good to point out that nobody locks their doors in blanchard) and stealing her husbands drugs...hmmm again insinuating this kid did it...why? and what kind of drug theif only steals a few of the drugs and comes back? and why if she suspected that she not start locking her doors? this is adding up to the lady doth protest too much and i want to know why. she should have stuck with someone i didn't know broke down my door. the fact you made up was she told him to stop coming around and he still shows up..that never happened.
 
  • #107
two years ago they met at a rodeo. reporter asks the girl did you know him...she said i don't know him i have seen him around town? now how should we take that? mother says in another article that he stalked her at a rodeo two years ago followed her around... third story...he showed up at her house the other night and introduced himself as a neighbor then acted strangely and left because my family was hear...are you reading stalking somewhere? two years two definite meetings if we are to believe both happened and a few indefinite i have seen him around town...if you think that is stalking then the men in your life don't have a chance..lol. i don't know about the drugs being sold, but she also said she suspected someone had been coming into her unlocked home (reporters have been good to point out that nobody locks their doors in blanchard) and stealing her husbands drugs...hmmm again insinuating this kid did it...why? and what kind of drug theif only steals a few of the drugs and comes back? and why if she suspected that she not start locking her doors? this is adding up to the lady doth protest too much and i want to know why. she should have stuck with someone i didn't know broke down my door. the fact you made up was she told him to stop coming around and he still shows up..that never happened.

BBM

Could you point me to the article that says this?
 
  • #108
BBM

Could you point me to the article that says this?

there have so many stories..i do not know all my sources and did not copy them..but i think the one you want is about the drugs gone missing....

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...-Shane-Martin-looking-prescription-drugs.html


"Justin Martin, 24, was addicted to prescription drugs, his friend told police, and was looking for his next fix.

Painkillers had gone missing from their home in recent weeks, Ms McKinley said, and suspected someone was breaking in.
The young widow told NewsOK"




drugs gone missing and reference the prior visit. seems confusing..did she recall him or not.
 
  • #109
how come all we have is about 2 minutes of the 911 call available? i cannot locate anything from the second dispatcher, the Blanchard PD...just the county dispatch. i think the one where the kid gets shot would be more important than her first 2 or 3 minutes..was this a 20 minute call or not? it seems so chopped up. i want to hear it all.
 
  • #110
It's probably self defense...and i certainly don't want to get everyone pissed at me.. i think there is room for healthy discussion. i just don't understand the need to label him a stalker..when the behavior decribed by her supporters is not even stalking. if she is justified in killing him, its because he broke in her door, why make up anything? I don't understand how a hand that is dead clutches a knife either. maybe the press used that word and the knife was actually laying on the ground. but i really don't think he was coming after this girl or her baby. he is another kid who is addicted to this terrible pain killer oxicotin and is willing to risk his freedom and apparently his life for that drug. i guess everyone wanting to cannonize this woman over the death of this kid, and telling the world she was protecting her child is just crazy. she was hiding and keeping quiet. he was breaking into an empty home in his mind. you can still legally shoot him, but there is no need to make stuff up...you know? and i agree, the police need to investigate more. thanks for letting me vent.

Mike, I agree. I hope there is a very thorough investigation. Something isn't right with this whole scenario. I suspect the circumstances leading up to this confrontation and shooting are not as have been claimed. That said, he ought not to have been trying to gain entry into this residence. I am concerned for this baby's future.
 
  • #111
not to butt in, but i sure haven't seen any article or heard any interview in which she claims to have thought someone had been breaking into her home to steal drugs. what i've seen consists of a bunch of comments, underneath msm articles or blogs, in which the average jane/john seems all too comfortable berating this woman, inferring her late husband must have been a pedophile, a drug dealer, and on and on.

i don't see the point. this is not to say i don't believe le should do a thorough investigation bc i certainly do believe they should, and i believe they are. i'm interested in the missing computer and phone but mostly bc i believe the living perp ditched them so as to avoid even more trouble.

the facts as supported by le have not changed to date. this woman was in her residence minding her own business when two individuals attempted to break down the door and get inside. she called 911 and clearly stated she was there with her child, was armed, and even asked if she could shoot if someone gained entry.

whether the perps were after drugs or out to rape/kill, they were the ones who were breaking the law that night and they were the ones who caused a mother to have reasonable fear for the safety of her child and herself. even if she and her deceased husband had been selling those individuals drugs prior to his death (bc, after all, it's not like a dying cancer patient might actually have needed them himself), she did not invite the perps to break into her home that night, called 911 for help, and when the perp came crashing in, she protected herself and child.

one could easily come to the conclusion by reading posts at other sites that many people would rather this have ended with a dead woman and baby. it makes no sense.
 
  • #112
I don't believe the second guy took the dead guy's laptop and cell phone. Police have that second guy's cell phone, so why wouldn't he hide his own if he were hiding cell phone and laptop to begin with? Police are still investigating the case and are looking for additional information. Appears to be lots of rumors out there.

"Det. Dan Huff with Blanchard Police says, "We might conduct another search warrant. We are still considering that and seeking additional information."
http://www.kfor.com/news/local/kfor...s-national-criticism-20120110,0,6319925.story
 
  • #113
how come all we have is about 2 minutes of the 911 call available? i cannot locate anything from the second dispatcher, the Blanchard PD...just the county dispatch. i think the one where the kid gets shot would be more important than her first 2 or 3 minutes..was this a 20 minute call or not? it seems so chopped up. i want to hear it all.

i found it odd that the original dispatcher transferred her to another dispatcher while her home was being invaded. and yes, i'd like to know why we've heard nothing from that other dispatcher or any of that call.

also, you mentioned upthread about the photo of her with the gun. that did bother me. she is clearly comfortable with guns, which is good if you're going to be able to use one for protection, but i think the posing for the camera was over the top and disturbing.

my brother is with le and used to be a bike cop in a rough area. one night he and his partner were chasing down a suspected drug dealer when the suspect turned and shot my brother in the chest. he was wearing his vest, thanks to my s-i-l who forced the issue. he was blown off his bike, however, and the suspect lifted his gun and pointed at my brother's head. my brother got off one shot before he lost consciousness. the shot killed the suspect.

this was 15 years ago and i can tell you, my brother, though entirely justified, wishes he'd never had to fire his weapon. i cannot imagine being comfortable with taking someone else's life no matter what the circumstances.
 
  • #114
you are missing my point..i don't think he was coming in there to get anyone...if he didn't know anyone was there, how could he be coming to kill anyone? she was hiding and being quiet...and what if her husband or her had been selling drugs to him for months? i am not saying they were, but i am not buying he was coming after her..he was coming after drugs...how he knew they were there, we will leave for another day.

Why bang loudly on two doors at once if they thought no one was there?

I'm not buying what Stewart is selling. Stealing drugs doesn't involve stalking women and killing of pets.

Exactly. He came to her house late at night wanting to "introduce" himself, the day her husband died. Her dogs began being poisoned. This was one scary, scary person. It was a home invasion of a house of a young, single mom and her baby and they were not there to "party" IMO.

Except they were in Oklahoma. What I found says a 16 y.o. can have sex with anyone under the age of 18. No, I don't have a link....sorry.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...-Shane-Martin-looking-prescription-drugs.html

Last updated at 5:46 PM on 6th January 2012

Unless that is a misprint, she would have only been 15 and he 55 (:eek:) when they began living together and only married two months ago, just before he died. And after the baby was born. Unless that article is completely off.

Her marriage to/relationship with an older man (which does gross me out) has zero to do with this story and may be used by some to somehow insinuate that this gal was not a victim of an attempted and horrific crime and that she survived by pure pluck and spirit. I could care less who she was married to. The crime we are talking about is what happened to her the day two monsters tried to force their way in, not whatever may have happened in her past. Happy she and her baby are alive.

There is a lot about this story i do not understand and your points are well taken. I cannot understand why she didn't turn on the lights or yell...not that she is obligated to, but seems natural...and she had a dog in the pic with her and we never hear the dog bark during the 911 tape...perhaps it was outside or something..and she said something odd...she suspected someone had been coming into her house while she was away and taking her husbands meds....i have thought about that..who would break into a home and take some of his drugs then come back for more..and if it happened once, who would leave their doors open after that? and then there is the story about the alledge stalking behavior...her mother said he stalked her at a rodeo two years before..followed her out to her truck...but she said she had seen the guy around town but didn't know him...but then he showed up at her house the day or so before acting strangely but left because her family was there..said he introduced himself as a neighbor and left...hmmm...aren;t all those accts inconsistent with the others...stalking is not one encounter at a rodeo two years ago, nor is it seeing him around town...i really think there is more to this story..i am sure i will be unpopular in here...i always cheer when i read about the bad guy getting what he deserves..and this guy did kick the door open and that to me is suicide and justifiable to shoot...but i can't help thinking there is more to this story.

I am assuming you are not a woman. I have had a few instances when someone was creeching around my home or trying to get in. A woman's instinct is to stay as quiet as possible, get something to defend herself with and call the cops. The fear is horrible but not enough to make it 100% certain that a scared woman is alone in the house.

I have my own questions about this story as well. She breeds German Shepherd and in the photo there is a large German Shepherd with her. Where was the dog, because a dog like that could presumably scare off an intruder, I mean, it's not a toy poodle. Why was this guy trying to break in for 20 minutes? Didn't he think she was going to call 911? I just read police are looking for the dead guy's laptop and cell phone that police believe were in the truck but were not found in the truck when it was searched-so what happened to laptop and cell phone?

She said many of her dogs had been poisoned recently. Maybe this is a new dog. LE's search for the dead criminal's laptop and cell phone may be simply so they can figure out additional charges for the creep who survived, to determine what they planned to do with this poor gal and her baby once inside.

Before we all get so excited, I hope police does investigate fully what was going on, including what was on this guy's laptop and cell phone. This case appears to be straight forward self-defense, but just recently a woman was convicted for murder of a man which she claimed to be self-defense. I don't think this is the case here, but, IMO, police need to investigate to make sure.

The cops already stated this was a case of self-defense. The way the guy was found makes that seem clear, as well as the fact that the other guy fled and did not turn himself in until news of a search for him went out. The 911 call that we got to hear makes that even more clear.

There is no investigation going on as to what she did, IMO. The "story" is simple. Two thugs tried to muscle their way into a woman's house in the middle of the country. One broke down her door. He's now dead. The other guy is being charged with felony murder and a host of other things. Simple to me.

we all have the right to shoot an intruder...but there is no proof he was coming for her. he was coming for drugs. and i believe at the end of the day, he thought the house was empty.. maybe i am wrong. but based on all that we know, he never tried to communicate with her, he tried to open doors...like a burglar not a home invader. what idiot would spend 20 minutes trying to break into an occupied home? how could anyone know it would take 20 mins for a cop to get there?

You don't bang repeatedly on a door when you think no one is home. How can you state for a fact that this guy was coming for drugs? Frankly, I don't give a rats you know what why he was coming in that house. He busted through the door of a young, widowed mother's home. She defended herself and killed him. I am glad he is dead and not her and her baby. Sorry.

I hate when the victims become the criminals in discussion when the facts don't point that way.

JMO

IMO she was the victim who protected herself. If there is more to it, I'm sure it will be reported on.

Thank you. There's no more to it except what the defense of the other creep will try to spin. And I don't get this debate one bit. It's actually making me sick a little. Shall I cite to the multitude of cases where the person inside was not armed and the criminal outside got in?

My gosh, this was a tiny, young mother, alone in a remote trailer with her infant son, and two scary thugs were outside trying to bang her doors down. Crazy monsters if you ask me, thinking they could scare her into opening the door and letting them inside where they would do God knows what, although I can surely guess.

This was not going to end up as a case of a woman robbed and left to see another day. The dead guy was nuts. Both of them seem crazed. He knew she was all alone because he had conveniently shown up to her house in the middle of the night to "meet" her the day her husband was buried. He was stalking a victim and even if he was there in part to score some drugs, there is no way such a brazen, psycho criminal would have stopped there. I truly believe it would have ended in hours of rape, torture and ultimate death of the mom and her baby.

I can so easily put myself in her shoes. My feeling is that those who want to see more to the story, cannot. God bless her and her little one. I hope they get tons of donations and can move somewhere safer.
 
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  • #116
she described one person, the dead guy going from door to door, never a second guy. the second guy said he never went up to the house. nobody has disputed that, though some have reported he was right behind him, but they made that up. she did not see anyone else and all we have to go on is the living dude's story. so there was not two people banging at the doors..

The new mother told KOCO News that the men started knocking aggressively on her door, Martin in front and Stewart in the back.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...d-intruder-week-babys-father-died-cancer.html
 
  • #117
What Gitana said!

:rocker:

Mel
 
  • #118
how come all we have is about 2 minutes of the 911 call available? i cannot locate anything from the second dispatcher, the Blanchard PD...just the county dispatch. i think the one where the kid gets shot would be more important than her first 2 or 3 minutes..was this a 20 minute call or not? it seems so chopped up. i want to hear it all.

Perhaps LE has not authorized its release. It is probably pretty disturbing to hear because it likely has audio of the guy being killed. Most American media outlets also refrain from broadcasting actual deaths.

In any event, why the concern? LE surely has the tape.
 
  • #119
The cops already stated this was a case of self-defense. The way the guy was found makes that seem clear, as well as the fact that the other guy fled and did not turn himself in until news of a search for him went out. The 911 call that we got to hear makes that even more clear.

That other guy called 911 and gave his own name after he heard the shot, so I wouldn't call that fleeing from justice.
 
  • #120
It's simply not true that there is no more investigation going on. Police are still investigating and might be getting an additional search warrant.
"Det. Dan Huff with Blanchard Police says, "We might conduct another search warrant. We are still considering that and seeking additional information." "

http://www.kfor.com/news/local/kfor...s-national-criticism-20120110,0,6319925.story

Clearly, any investigation isn't into Sarah McKinley's conduct:

Detectives will continue their investigation after they obtain a search warrant for Martin’s car.

Two men tried breaking into Ms McKinley’s house, one armed with a 12-inch hunting knife.

Since police said the shooting was in self-defence, she will not be charged.
Emphasis by me. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...-Shane-Martin-looking-prescription-drugs.html
 

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