As far as those school records you mentioned, Holdon- they were mysteriously "sealed" -incredibly even kept from the LE who were investigating her murder! I'd love to know who was able to do that! Though I have my ideas about it.
JBR's participation in Little Miss Christmas (which I believe she won) or any other pageant were just part of her life. She didn't know anything else. Whatever was going on in her life- well, basically if you are 6 years old, you get up and do whatever your mother has planned for the day. Remember Nedra's CHILLING comment when asked what they would do if JBR refused to particpate in a pageant- she said, "We simply say to her, JonBenet- you WILL do it."
She didn't have a choice.
She buried with her Little Miss Christmas crown on her head. It breaks my heart to think of a tiny little girl lying in a grave with a dazzling crown on her head - a crown that represented "just few Sunday afternoons" of her short, tragic life.
Absolutely, you are just going to get up and go along with whatever your mother has planned when you are only six years old...especially when your mother, grandmother, and aunt all approve of it so highly and you've found it's the best way to get love, attention, and validation from these matriarchal family members who govern every minute of your life.
And what activities did Patsy have JonBenet enrolled in? According to DOI: singing and dancing lessons, French lessons, gymnastics, piano, and violin. All of them meant to enhance JonBenet's presentation at beauty pageants. What else did JB have time to do when she wasn't at lessons or rehearsals for these activities? There's costume-fittings, photo sessions, hair-bleaching afternoons, parades, and various performances like at schools and malls...oh, yeah, and she was also in kindergarten, but that wasn't as important to Patsy as the pageants.
Unfortunately, neither was JonBenet's inability to stay dry enough to avoid enduring frequent infections from always being in wet underwear. But all of those activities and all of the stress and responsibility of having to not only stay on top of them all but also use what she's learned to WIN pageants wouldn't have been enough to cause JonBenet to be incontinent, now would it? It wouldn't explain any erosion to her hymen, either. But something was clearly not right in JonBenet's life to have the issues with wetting/soiling that she did, and Patsy's failure to make it important enough to address indicates to me that Patsy may have known the cause but refused to deal with it. I think if the incontinence had interfered with pageants, it would have been more important, but all Patsy needed was a pull-up on her daughter and no one would be the wiser.
What choice did JonBenet have but to do the pageants like her maternal family members expected her to, when she's being worked that hard to maintain them?