First, I am so sorry what you went through in not being supported when raising abuse issues. That would be an awful experience, especially when it is a church family you trust and expect to stand by you.
I can only speak for myself, but, as a Mormon, I have been proud of what Lisa wrote. She loved Travis and it must have been hard for her to love him and still maintain the sexual standards she wanted to have. Instead of giving in for what would make someone else happy, she stood by her values.
Honestly, as a Mormon, I bet that's what Travis liked about her. I bet he admired her strength. On the one hand, Jodi is throwing herself at him. And, on the other, there is someone who has self respect who says she is going to do what she wants to do, when she wants to do it. No matter what - sex, ethics, anything - that is a difficult stand to take when you really care about someone else. I am proud of her and I can see why he liked her.
I hurt for her because I can see that she saw Travis as conflicted and wanted to stay on her own path. I believe she hoped he would choose that path, too. Now that he is gone, I am sure she still cares deeply for him and is pained to read this email listing all his flaws which were important at the time in their personal relationship but seem so unimportant now that he is gone. I personally would not like my break up emails read and aired all over the world.
But, I am with the rest of you. I think she will benefit the prosecution more. She seems able to use her strength to convey all of this for what it was - a break up - and not let the defense carry her down the abuse trail.
And, just to add, in the Mormon world, touching her rearend could be simply patting her on the rump. A devout Mormon girl would be offended by that. I think the defense read that as grabbing her, but it could have been something that is relatively minor to everyone else.