Tim Miller Speaks Out

[elle1919]

Miss James....a foster parent for 20 years......in my opinion you are not just an average citizen.

 

[SeriouslySearching]

With all due respect, it's NOT useless drivel if TN is leaving the "LOVE YOU" message on Tim Millers answering machine one day, and throwing him under the bus and saying he's lying the next.
That IS important, IMO.

IMO, it is drivel.

 

[Baznme]

The therapist in that session actually used the very example that I gave. That it would be appropriate for their Mother to say love you to male family members, but not other men. Perhaps boundary issues are up for more personal interpretation for those who do not worry about giving the wrong impression. IDK and at this point I know it will not help find HaLeigh. I find it odd...JMO

Hard to say how we would relate to another person that has had a child missing and was found deceased. They are a "family" in their own right. We don't know what that's like - most of us anyway. So to hear a reference of affection between these people would be easy to understand, I would think. I can only "try" to put myself in their shoes.

 

[Baznme]

With all due respect, it's NOT useless drivel if TN is leaving the "LOVE YOU" message on Tim Millers answering machine one day, and throwing him under the bus and saying he's lying the next.
That IS important, IMO.

I believe TN is in a precarious spot. Trying to support RC and at the same time having her own perceptions as to what really happened. She flip flops and it's doing nothing but hindering the outcome of this case. I wouldn't want to be her but she has to be true to her own heart. God, won't someone stick to their own convictions for Haleigh?!

 

[Baznme]

Miss James....a foster parent for 20 years......in my opinion you are not just an average citizen.

Ummmm..........I think not. This goes well beyond the average citizen. Miss James, you are to be applauded for putting those kids above all.

 

[cyberborg]

I agree Gracenote. If we put all these recent events in order we might see a pattern.

For instance, back when they vigil was taking place and I saw a video of Misty walk over and hand TN a flier or whatever the paper in her hand was....I noticed a deliberate attempt by TN to avoid eye contact with Misty. It looked to me, then, that TN had some negative feelings. It just looked like a cold exchange in my opinion. I have to wonder if Misty felt the ground beneath her starting to shift...hence the phone call to her brother and according to him she was ready to leave Ronald. Today we hear a voice mail left for TN for Tim Miller and if I am not mistaken it was back towards the end of August and she was suspecting that Misty was getting ready to go. This would coincide with her feelings during the vigil. She sure looked like she was "doubting" to me. But I think if we look deep enough the truth is there to be had.

Trouble is "the truth" is being kept behind closed doors and what we get are affirmations that Misty was mother of the year. I suspect Tim Miller wanted to open the doors.

Worth repeating. :clap: Back to sleuthing.....

 

[TallCoolOne]

With all due respect, it's NOT useless drivel if TN is leaving the "LOVE YOU" message on Tim Millers answering machine one day, and throwing him under the bus and saying he's lying the next.
That IS important, IMO.

Really? Is it going to make any difference in locating Haliegh? Or could it possibly have anything to do with the emotional turmoil the family is most likely going through? Carry on if you insist. I'd just like to know why it's so important. So tell me, did she say love you, or luv you?

 

[elle1919]

Ummmm..........I think not. This goes well beyond the average citizen. Miss James, you are to be applauded for putting those kids above all.

20 years is complete and total dedication to children without a loving home and I just really needed to say it out loud.

 

[SeriouslySearching]

If she is pretending to like Misty so that she can find out what happened to her grandchild...I don't see how it is much different than LE lying to people in order to gain a confession. I haven't seen Teresa lie like Crystal's family here. To me, there is a huge difference between the two.

 

[badme102]

Really? Is it going to make any difference in locating Haliegh? Or could it possibly have anything to do with the emotional turmoil the family is most likely going through? Carry on if you insist. I'd just like to know why it's so important. So tell me, did she say love you, or luv you?

I won't discuss "useless drivel" with you, so feel free to talk about what is important to you, and I'll do the same. Thanks so much.

 

[MissJames]

I believe TN is in a precarious spot. Trying to support RC and at the same time having her own perceptions as to what really happened. She flip flops and it's doing nothing but hindering the outcome of this case. I wouldn't want to be her but she has to be true to her own heart. She'll get there, it's just going to take a little more time. She too, is in turmoil.

I can't even begin to imagine what she has to deal with.I think she is between a rock and a hard place,but hopefully she will shove that rock aside or climb over it.

 

[elle1919]

I keep typing a comment in the quick reply box and and then backspacing it all out again. I am reading posts from some very intelligent people on this forum that I have a tremendous amount of respect for...... it is clear that we all have some very serious emotions tied up in this case. That is all I want to say.

 

[badme102]

I believe TN is in a precarious spot. Trying to support RC and at the same time having her own perceptions as to what really happened. She flip flops and it's doing nothing but hindering the outcome of this case. I wouldn't want to be her but she has to be true to her own heart. She'll get there, it's just going to take a little more time. She too, is in turmoil.

You know, I totally understand that, and I would NEVER want to be in her position. My only problem with her is that I totally believe that she will throw anyone under the bus to "save" her little boy, Ron.

I guess I don't appreciate this whole family begging Tim Miller to come and "help" them, and when he does what they ask, they throw him to the wolves because they don't "like" the answers (results) they are getting.

That's not right, IMO. Tim Miller is a hero in my book, and for anyone to disrespect him in this way is unexplainable and unconscionable.

 

[Skully]

Look a child is missing and may be gone forever. Every person in this has to do what they have to do to get Haleigh back. I for one, see players that have to say one thing and do another. I don't know about TN and Tim, but if the family is playing nice with Misty to get her to talk, then I don't consider it lying. I consider it the only thing they can do to get Haleigh back. She is not my child, but I can tell you, the things that I would do to get her back, I can't post. We all spend hours here, and reading every thing we can, watching video's for a tiny clue, and we all have been invested in the little sweet heart. I still send out fyers to all over the US with our packages we mail every day. I think we are all a bit on the edge here and tired. Try to remember we are not the only ones that read here. Please.

 

[SeriouslySearching]

You know, I totally understand that, and I would NEVER want to be in her position. My only problem with her is that I totally believe that she will throw anyone under the bus to "save" her little boy, Ron.

I guess I don't appreciate this whole family begging Tim Miller to come and "help" them, and when he does what they ask, they throw him to the wolves because they don't "like" the answers (results) they are getting.

That's not right, IMO. Tim Miller is a hero in my book, and for anyone to disrespect him in this way is unexplainable and unconscionable.

Cut to the chase here! SAVE HIM FROM WHAT?! She is trying to SAVE HALEIGH, IMO!

 

[SeriouslySearching]

Today...Misty knows she has not been backing her, but plotted against her, imo. The cat is out of the bag and Teresa has lost her chance to go any farther with Misty. I would imagine this is a very horrible day for Teresa because it is like everything she has worked for is now gone...except she did get things rolling. She has to know she did the right thing for the right reasons.

 

[Skully]

I think the cat being out of the bag is bad for TN, because she can't get info out of Misty, but now that it is out in the open, maybe something will start to move in the right direction. My only fear is Misty is going to take off.

 

[Maven2379]

Today...Misty knows she has not been backing her, but plotted against her, imo. The cat is out of the bag and Teresa has lost her chance to go any farther with Misty. I would imagine this is a very horrible day for Teresa because it is like everything she has worked for is now gone...except she did get things rolling. She has to know she did the right thing for the right reasons.

Maybe so, but after almost 7 months with no answers, it's probably time to try something new anyway.

 

[SeriouslySearching]

I think the cat being out of the bag is bad for TN, because she can't get info out of Misty, but now that it is out in the open, maybe something will start to move in the right direction. My only fear is Misty is going to take off.

If she does...she does. Then we will never find out what happened to Haleigh.

 

[badme102]

Cut to the chase here! SAVE HIM FROM WHAT?! She is trying to SAVE HALEIGH, IMO!

OK, I'll cut to the chase. I think TN has knowledge that Ron was involved in Haleigh's disappearance, and she wants to save him from prison, IMO. (a la Cindy Anthony)