Nonni Brenda
Georgia girl
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- Jan 9, 2009
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yeah, listening to the 911 tape showed one side of her, watching her interviews with Ron in control showed another, and watching the bust tapes showed another. The hey Baby stuff was kind of mind blowing. I don't like saying this because it changes the dynamics of Ron, (and his record should speak for itself), but Misty really did seem to have a certain hold on Ron. She bragged about taking him away from his ex, according to Chelsea, he showered her with gifts, ( including a car), he took her back after WBG, he told Cobra he loved that S O *, he married her, (even though he didn't marry the mothers of his children), according to her mom, he paid for her tattoo, and then they dealt drugs together. When looked at the whole picture, she seemed to have more of a hold on him, than he did her...but was it big enough for him to cover for her murdering his child? IDK, but after this happened, it sure didn't take long for him to get back with her. There was a reason she left and went to her mom's. Was it because of him suspecting her, or was it something else? Actually, it's been a long while since I've bought the idea of Misty covering for Ron-at least exclusively. Chelsea's story of Misty loving Ron so much or being scared of him, seemed so ridiculous, that it had the opposite effect, IMO. just made me more sure that Misty isn't covering for him. MOO
Dodie, my take on the Misty/Ron relationship: He let her think that she had a certain control over him, because he "loved' her so much. He let her think that the gifts were out of love for her, and that she had "taken' him from from another girl, etc. Then after Haleigh went missing, I think he married her because he needed to keep her silenced, and as a way to manipulate her into saying and doing what he needed her to do. I think Misty provided Ron with something he needed too, namely a baby-sitter, a very young girlfriend, etc. But I also believe that Misty was no inocent push-over either. He provided her whth what she needed. She finally fealt like she had a family, as it was, and was grownup and the "lady' of the house.She fealt like she "belonged" and was a part of the great Cummings family. I think they played off of each other, but in a very sick way. They both controled each other at different times. That was the relationship they enjoyed, even the fighting. Almost like a sick addiction. Of course that is JMO.