As was brought up by someone upthread the subject of how Karen Bobo knew for certain Drew could not have been/was not the man in camo that Clint had seen his sister with that morning of the 13th.. How I recalled it to happen was that she had already spoken with Drew that Morning.. In wanting to ensure that I was recalling the sequence of events correctly and not stating incorrect info I, too searched out MSM verified information to back up what it is that I recall to have happened regarding Karen knowing this info about Drew prior to talking to Clint or the neighbor(full quote along with link to the full article is posted at the bottom)
Several have asked do we know or is there clarification of what means of communication that Karen had with Drew the morning of the 13th.. I cannot find specific clarification stating that it was via a phone call rather than face to face in person conversation, but IMO I believe that is what it most likely alludes to in Karen's stating:
[all quotes in this post are from one link posted at the bottom]
But as I said there is nothing clarifying that it was via phone convo or via face to face convo.. We just know that Karen had spoken with Drew at some point prior to Karen having any idea Holly's well fare was even at risk..
Karen having already spoken to Drew BEFORE the neighbor called the school(to alert Karen that they had heard screams from what they felt was the direction of the Bobo's residence).. And also BEFORE Karen spoke with her son, Clint via phone call while at the school(a little confusion as per this article it specifically states that
Karen called Clint which is opposite of how we have been told many times before in that it was "Clint who called mom, Karen" for the purpose of either telling/or inquiring her about was Holly supposed to have been at school because he had seen her outside their home with Her boyfriend, Drew)
However the situation remains the same in that we know that at some point prior to Karen's being alerted to something possibly happening at home.. Karen had already spoken to Drew in those early morning hours of April 13th.. We do not know what was told her by Drew in that convo but can draw the logical conclusion that whatever it was that was told her it had to have been indicative that Drew absolutely would not or could not possibly be able to have been at the Bobo residence at that specific time that Clint told his mom that he had seen who he thought was Drew dressed all in camo and was last seen alongside Holly walking towards the woods of their back property.
IMO for Karen Bobo to have been so very assured that there was no way the person who Clint believed to have been Holly's boyfriend, Drew..was NOT DREW, and to without hesitation tell her son that it could not and was not Drew that he saw.. To me for a mother to make such a declarative statement.. Seemingly without a shadow of a doubt in her mind that what her very own son, Clint was telling her that he witnessed and who he witnessed to be with his sister just moments prior and that person was Drew.. IMO for Karen to have immediately stated that he was wrong and that it was not and could not be Drew that her son had just seen.. That tells me that whatever was the convo between Karen and Drew at some point prior to her learning that Holly was likely in grave danger.. Those statements made by Drew to Karen had to not only be believable.. But absolutely convincing That whatever and more importantly WHEREVER it was that Drew was relaying to Karen as to his immediate agenda and whereabouts as well as ATLEAST a specific amount of time assumed on Karen's part as to the length of time that Drew would be involved in this task at hand and in an area that was not within immediate range of the Bobo's home..
IMO this would have had to have been known for certain in order for Karen to immediately disregard her son's statement that he'd just seen Holly with Drew.. I am putting myself in her shoes as a mother who is talking to her adult son who is relaying info to me about his sister, my daughter and what my son just moments prior had witnessed himself and who he saw his sister alongside of was her boyfriend, Drew.. For me to immediately tell my son that He is wrong, that it was NOT Drew who he had just witnessed, he must be mistaken because Drew could not or would not have been there just moments prior.. For me to immediately without hesitation strike down my adult son's eye witness account of what he had only moments prior seen with his very own eyes.. For me to strike that down, disregard it 100%, and even tell him he is absolutely wrong and mistaken.. There would have to be something extremely concrete that I knew that Drew was elsewhere engaged in doing.. Therefor making it impossible for him to have not been at the Bobo residence.. Would not other mothers agree with me on that??*
And in that lies the question of what??? What on earth could it be that had Karen know with such certainty that she *immediately discounts her son's eyewitness acct and without hesitation then convinces her son that he is wrong and who he saw was NOT DREW..?? where would Drew have been that she would have known with such certainty that IT COULD NOT BE DREW that was at the Bobo residence???
Because you take into consideration the amount of time between Karen having talked to Drew.. And no one knows
For certain but likely it would have been prior to her beginning her work day at the school.. So we could be talking anywhere within that hour or possibly even longer, but a safe bet would be if she spoke to Clint a little before 8, and the neighbor a few mins prior to that, then I'd think it safe that to guesstimate that she could've talked to him on that 26 min commute from home to school btwn. 7:00-7:30am(again just a guesstimate).. So if she speaks to Clint a little before 8 IMO itd be safe to say it'd likely been around or atleast
30 mins since she'd spoken with Drew(again we never have had it clarified that the convo was via phone vs. Face to face).. So taking that into consideration the convo btwn mom and Drew could have been much earlier that morning.. But safe to say ATLEAST 30mins likely had passed since she'd spoken to Drew when she had her conversation with Clint where he tells her he has seen Holly with Drew right outside their home..
So if we know mom first speaks with Clint regarding Holly's well being just shy of 8am and likely her convo with Drew is ATLEAST 30mins prior to that time.. IMO that is more than enough of a lapse in time for anyone to travel within anywhere in Darden, including it's surrounding areas..jmo.. If even we narrow the window of time to say 15 mins between Karen's convo with Drew.. Her getting to the cafeteria, then her being alerted as to a call from the neighbor, to her finally speaking with Clint to hear his acct of what he'd just seen.. Even if you squeeze that time to just 15mins prior she had spoken with Drew that still is a sufficient lapse in time to have had Drew for whatever reasons have a change of
Plans and left where it was that he'd relayed to Karen that he was and headed to the Bobo's residence..
My point is that very easily something could have changed in the time that lapsed between Karen's having talked with Drew and obviously at that time learned his agenda and whereabouts(atleast to some extent).. And the time that she eventually speaks with her son, Clint and learns that according to him he, in the moments prior, had just seen Holly and whom he believed at that time to have been Her boyfriend, Drew right outside the back of their home..
IMO any way you look at it there has to be significant amount of time(enough to travel the short distances In and around Darden and the Bobo residence) to have lapsed from when Karen had spoken to Drew at some point earlier and prior to her learning of there being any threat whatsoever to Holly's well being.. And that due to there even being a small amount of time lapse that existed between the conversations, regardless it was still a window of time that could have very easily allowed any type of change in plans, whether a predetermined change of plans or a spur of the moment change in plans, either way time lapsed allowed for this change of plans to have occurred and have been possible IMO..
So, in knowing this and recognizing that easily something could have changed from the time Karen last spoke to Drew.. I ask myself the question what would make Karen certain this wasn't a possibility(and not ONLY certain at this particular moment with the flood of emotions of everything happening all at once.. But a continued certainty in still seeming to believe with absolute certainty that IT COULD NOT HAVE BEEN Drew at their house at the time when Clint believed who he saw with Holly walking towards the woods was Drew)
What could have been told her by Drew, himself in that last convo prior to Holly's disappearance that would be so concrete in Karen's mind that it could not have been Drew at the Bobo home that morning?? Even when her own son states that he saw Holly alongside who he believed to be her boyfriend, Drew??*
In trying to think on what some of those possibilities would be what first comes to mind is that if Karen knew for certain that Drew was in a location that given the amount of time available that morning that it would be literally IMPOSSIBLE for him to have traveled that distance..Another is that Karen knew Drew's exact location due one of a couple ways..she possibly was his ride that morning taking him to where it was she knew that he was(or possibly Dana was his transportation that day).. Either way Maybe she knew first hand he did not have available to him any means of transportation to have been able to get to the Bobo residence at the specific time that Clint states that he saw Holly and who he believed to have been Drew..
Those are a few of the reasons that I came up with off the top of my head as to how or why would Karen have been so very certain that it was not&could not have been possible for it to have been Drew that Clint thought he had seen with Holly..
Anyone who has other ideas of what would constitute for Karen's certainty in immediately discounting her own son's eyewitness account of who he'd seen Holly with during that specific period of time.. Please don't hesitate to point out&post.. My intention is not to prove that Karen was wrong in her without a doubt holding steadfast to it not even being a possibility that it was Drew that her son saw that morning.. But rather to help possibly discern what it is that would have immediately made her so dog gone certain, without even a shadow of a doubt that her son was absolutely 100% mistaken in who he believed that he'd seen with his sister the morning of her disappearance..*
Because as I said earlier for me as a mother to right off the bat, immediately upon my adult son telling me what he had just only moments prior to speaking with me.. That he'd seen my daughter&her boyfriend.. For me to immediately&without hesitation tell him that he was mistaken, he was wrong, and that he did NOT see what he just stated that he'd seen.. For me as his mother to question something of such a dire of serious importance that my son was telling me.. It would have to be with very good, but most importantly with very concrete substance of knowledge that would make it IMPOSSIBLE..therefor meaning my son was
Infact WRONG/MISTAKEN. *
And in my personal opinion my daughter's boyfriend telling me in a convo at some point earlier that morning what his agenda and whereabouts were for that day and time.. His mere word alone in a convo to me would not constitute the type of concrete evidence that I personally would have to have in order for me to immediately discount my own son's eyewitness acct..jmo, tho!
Here is the quote in it's full context of which I have quoted different portions of throughout my post.. Along with the link to the full 2 page article as well:
http://www.wreg.com/news/wreg-holly...ay-she-vanished-20110722,0,3902086,full.story
Would be interested to hear what others thoughts are on what it was that was told Karen in her last convo with Drew at some Point in those early morning hours of April 13th..
This convo occurring Prior to her learning of Holly's possibly being in danger.. What could it have been that Drew relayed to Karen that made her IMMEDIATELY and without hesitation upon her son telling her that he had just seen Holly with Drew.. Karen's immediate reaction was that her son was mistaken, was wrong and that she knew for certain that it could not and wAs not Drew that Clint had seen alongside Holly walking towards the woods..
What could constitute that amount of certainty that it was NOT Drew?
TIA to any who think of some other possibilities because I am and have been totally perplexed by this for months.. :doh:
**sorry for the extremely lengthy post.. Can you tell that I really and truly wonder what could make a mom so certain about a teenage boyfriend's whereabouts??!?:crazy: