oh please don't - i have been on both sides of the coin in this situation and have read about my friend - and in the midst of all the conversations theories, questions - i watched how members kept the story going for the family got the truth out until it was picked up by a major news series, got the cause of death - for all the victims that weekend - changed from suicide to homicide, got a new investigation going - and even though it is still going on because of california politics - w/ out forums like this, nothing would have ever happened - even though some times some levity is injected and some people wanted to know more about his personal life - i never ever thought a single person had any malice towards my friend or any of the victims (even though he did have trace amounts of drugs in his system) - i have unfortunately been thru this rodeo 4 seperate times - best friend carjacked and murdered, another mugged and murdered at an atm, another found stabbed to death and left in a park (he was the one originally labeled a suicide), and my cousin who was murdered on a dallas downtown street in a random act of hatred because he was gay - and every thing you have said and done has done nothing but lift up the families - the same with every one here - you all stand up for the victims families - you offer alternative theories - you get the stories in the public to get the attention needed - as some one who has read stories in here as a friend of a victim - i have never been offended - not even by the occasional "blue" comments that are made - or at times when some one makes a joke because the reality is just so sad - so please reconsider - believe it or not this forum really does make a difference and help the victims left behind in a puddle of grief and anger when a violent act is committed
Wow you've certainly experienced more grief than anyone ever should endure. Hugs ... Excellent post!
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