BBM
IMO My ex-husband and I mutually agreed, without courts involved, that our son should be with my ex rather than me. The reason is that I have major depressive disorder and have been hospitalized 3 times for suicide ideation, and I don't have a support system.
In no way is there any animosity between me and my ex. My ex has a better support system than I do, and our son flourishes with him. I get to visit and have my son visit me as often as desired.
I did what was best for my son and not my own heart. Does it affect me? Every hour, every minute, my heart aches. The pain of this situation can be downright intolerable for me. The anniversary of my ex and son leaving will forever be seared in my heart. It is nearly impossible for me to get out of bed on that date.
Thus, I can understand 110% CP's frame of mind if this were the case for her too. Something like this can absolutely devastate a person.
Undoubtedly, it's a tragic situation for CP's whole family, and I hope they get they answers they deserve. And may CP rest in peace, whatever the cause of her death might have been.
MOO