TX - Dr. Kendra Hatcher, 35, killed in parking garage, Dallas, 2 Sept 2015 - #2

[Bravo]

I have seen doctors abandon their family and go with a person who is not an equal.

Agree. Yet it has been seen in other cases where one leaves for another who is a "stable" person. IMO

 

[Isabelle]

Nope. XFG.

Lol, XFG is a good one. Is this a Freudian slip?

 

[Coquette]

I have seen doctors abandon their family and go with a person who is not an equal.

Respectfully, I think you're missing the point. I am not talking about doctors as a whole.

 

[SweetT]

Agree. Yet it has been seen in other cases where one leaves for another who is a "stable" person. IMO

We are all human, while it is common for one to marry withing their same socio economic class, it does happen that one will marry someone out of their class ...Sievers comes to mind.There are plenty of people who will marry for personality, looks etc and not just educational background. However I agree it is more common than not to marry within the same educational background etc.

 

[*JMO*]

Yes, and unlike the XGF, Kendra was an equal. She was just as accomplished as he was in her own field.

Speaking as a MIL myself, I don't think being an "equal" would have been an issue if she were a normal gf. After all, she was pursuing a respectable profession as a dental hygienist. There would be nothing slouchy about that. Of course a GF that is a dentist might be more prestigious but I think if he had interests in a sweet, loving girl that they felt would be a good wife and mother one day they would have welcomed her. I think there were other issues.
One of my sons had a gf that was successful and lovely looking. But she was "off". She was very possessive and pushy about marriage. She would email me and tell me that she dreamed about me being her MIL and what their children would look like and things that just were way too forward and pushy.
She was very attractive and dressed very sexy, and came from a wealthy family. She was used to getting what she wanted.

Fortunately my son soon saw the light and broke it off. Even after that she sent me emails asking me to get him to take her back.

I am thinking there could have been that type of issue that caused Ricky's mother to be less than encouraging of the relationship. I think she had insight to some instability and that was her main concern. JMO.

 

[SweetT]

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I so agree about Facebook. As a another of three grown children, this case brings up so many worries and questions about how to deal with an Ex that can't let go.

Do you allow them to stay in touch and try to be "friends" or does that keep hope alive and keep them from moving on?

Or do you cut the person off completely, and risk their fury?

But, one thing is certain IMO...be very cautious about what you put on FB.

All my children are now over 18 but in my experience it is far best to know who your children are dealing with, be friendly with their gf/bf so you can notice for yourself how they treat your child and if you get any funny vibes etc. This is what I do and so far so good. When I thought one of my sons gf's was a bit off, I told him. They eventually broke up and all was fine, but she did cause trouble with his best friend later..and I told him, SEE, I told you she was off. Of course I had told him after they broke up to stay far away from her and that time it worked.

 

[mgkins]

Lol, XFG is a good one. Is this a Freudian slip?

didn't even notice that ha!

I think before this weekend we'll have a better picture of what happened. They should be getting close to having enough to charge the ex. I just can't process that it was CC driving. I believe, IMO, that it's far more likely that she's saying she drove to save herself from getting in more trouble. I think the ex drove (the smaller frame in the pics) and that CC was either the shooter or had someone with her, family or friend, that actually committed the crime. By saying SHE was the driver she's lessening her role, but I think the pics in the jeep are pretty clear that it was the ex driving the car. IMO IMO IMO

 

[Inthedetails]

Speaking as a MIL myself, I don't think being an "equal" would have been an issue if she were a normal gf. After all, she was pursuing a respectable profession as a dental hygienist. There would be nothing slouchy about that. Of course a GF that is a dentist might be more prestigious but I think if he had interests in a sweet, loving girl that they felt would be a good wife and mother one day they would have welcomed her. I think there were other issues.
One of my sons had a gf that was successful and lovely looking. But she was "off". She was very possessive and pushy about marriage. She would email me and tell me that she dreamed about me being her MIL and what their children would look like and things that just were way too forward and pushy.
She was very attractive and dressed very sexy, and came from a wealthy family. She was used to getting what she wanted.

Fortunately my son soon saw the light and broke it off. Even after that she sent me emails asking me to get him to take her back.

I am thinking there could have been that type of issue that caused Ricky's mother to be less than encouraging of the relationship. I think she had insight to some instability and that was her main concern. JMO.

I totally agree. Mama knew.

 

[longhorns22chick]

Thank you for continue to post articles about what could have lead up to the killing of my dear friend Kendra. Everytime I see a new video about her I breakdown she was an awesome person and no matter how jealous someone is doesn't mean this had to happen. So thank you for your continued efforts to find the truth. I am headed to go say goodbye to my friend..I guess i now have just one more angel to watch over us

Your friend Kendra seemed like a fun loving person. Sorry for your loss.

 

[BrownRice]

Confused about dating timeline. I too read RP and EX broke up in 2014. That's a large enough gap between girlfriends. It doesn't appear to be abnormal.


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[Isabelle]

As long as the ex is on the loose, I think there should be concern for RP's safety.

 

[Inthedetails]

Confused about dating timeline. I too read RP and EX broke up in 2014. That's a large enough gap between girlfriends. It doesn't appear to be abnormal.


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From what I gather, they broke up last summer (2014) but kept in touch. The "keeping in touch" could be exGF initiating contact, not a mutual thing. We really don't know, but as posted above, exGF claims that RP texted her "good luck" on the upcoming dental hygienist exams. Whether he was wishing her good luck as if he were still emotionally attached, or whether he was wishing her good-luck-and-good-riddance, we don't know.

It really does sound like the trip to SF sent exGF over the edge.

 

[CD82]

From what I gather, they broke up last summer (2014) but kept in touch. The "keeping in touch" could be exGF initiating contact, not a mutual thing. We really don't know, but as posted above, exGF claims that RP texted her "good luck" on the upcoming dental hygienist exams. Whether he was wishing her good luck as if he were still emotionally attached, or whether he was wishing her good-luck-and-good-riddance, we don't know.

It really does sound like the trip to SF sent exGF over the edge.

I wonder if she was constantly texting him with things, and maybe he told her good luck after SHE sent the first text....maybe trying to impress him? "Hey, I'm taking my exams today, I'll be a dentist one day" type of scenario....and he was like "ok good luck" and vice versa.

I just have a feeling this is going to be a very fatal attraction-like story.

 

[Isabelle]

Confused about dating timeline. I too read RP and EX broke up in 2014. That's a large enough gap between girlfriends. It doesn't appear to be abnormal.

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I suspect the engagement ring/engagement was a fantasy made up by the EGF. I am half Cuban, I know the type, extremely volatile! I have a niece who has the same personality as the EGF, married to two doctors. She would have no one else because the $$$ is what really matters, very shallow person. BTW, she is a very rich widow at this time.

 

[Bravo]

I suspect the engagement ring/engagement was a fantasy made up by the EGF. I am half Cuban, I know the type, extremely volatile! I have a niece who has the same personality as the EGF, married to two doctors. She would have no one else because the $$$ is what really matters, very shallow person. BTW, she is a very rich widow at this time.

I wondered the same as far as the engagement ring. Yikes "Widow" jumped out at me!

 

[Lilibet]

I suspect the engagement ring/engagement was a fantasy made up by the EGF. I am half Cuban, I know the type, extremely volatile! I have a niece who has the same personality as the EGF, married to two doctors. She would have no one else because the $$$ is what really matters, very shallow person. BTW, she is a very rich widow at this time.

My hinky meter just alerted. Please tell me that the doctor husbands died of old age or illnesses, not suspicious "accidents."

 

[CD82]

My hinky meter just alerted. Please tell me that the doctor husbands died of old age or illnesses, not suspicious "accidents."

I think Isabelle might have been talking about her niece, and not ExGF.

 

[human]

Respectfully, I think you're missing the point. I am not talking about doctors as a whole.

I was a little perturbed by the implication of the " equals". And I am not talking about the deranged ex but people in general.

 

[Lilibet]

I think Isabelle might have been talking about her niece, and not ExGF.

I know she was. I was just teasing her.

 

[deltamobile]

Ricky may have paid for his own ticket to see his parents. Ricky may have told the girlfriend at the time the story about the parents not paying for the ticket because he did not want her to go.