I agree, I was never a bit surprised (nor impressed) at the statement that IS would always 'avoid confrontation'. Of course he would, he's a coward! Confrontation requires honesty, showing your true colours and expressing feelings - none of which were his modus operandi. He far prefers to plot and scheme and sneak behind people's backs, selecting them as a victim without their knowledge so that when he strikes they are totally unprepared and defenceless.
Yes, huge similarities between him and other abusers/murders, narcissists all who play the persecuted victim when their true colours are exposed. What are the chances this excuse for a man will appeal against his conviction?
On a separate subject - front page of tomorrow's Mirror a professional hit man who claims to know who killed Jill Dando. This case has always intrigued me - I worked with her many years ago, a really lovely lady. I never believed Barry George did it, to my mind it had all the hallmarks of a professional hit, not a stalker. Another woman brutally killed as she was planning her wedding. But that's a different thread!